How Should I Feel That My Ex Told Someone I "Tasted Good?"

[Helpme2004]

should i be flattered or appalled my ex told someone i tasted good lol i feel so silly asking this?but my ex didnt want me to know he said it the person who told me wasnt suppose to tell me .anyone care to answer what he might of meant i think i have a feeling but not sure lol

[Stone]

I think this other person is trying to uh .......Taste you

[Papillon]

I assume you tasted good "down under"?

 

That's kissing and telling, and in a way it's disrepectful, but really it should only bother you if you allow it to. Besides, he's your ex, and he has no obligation to you in that respect, and perhaps it was his way of complimenting you.

 

Thus the question: Does it bother YOU or doesn't it? You shouldn't even be asking us at all

[Helpme2004]

Thank you for your honest answer Im 50% appauled and 50% flattered sounds sill to feel that way but Im torn.I know I shouldnt of even been asking but im just curious what would make a guy say that.didnt mean to affend anyone on here

[Papillon]

Originally posted by Helpme2004

Thank you for your honest answer Im 50% appauled and 50% flattered sounds sill to feel that way but Im torn.I know I shouldnt of even been asking but im just curious what would make a guy say that.didnt mean to affend anyone on here

 

The way I see it, 50% flattered is worth a lot more than 50% appalled is worthless. Take heart - your fanny tastes of stawberries and cream and guys dig it. Don't sweat the details.

[soccorsilly]

"Fanny" is means a totally different thing in South Africa and Britain. But the advise is right on!

 

As a guy, I will put in my 2 cents as well. Probably they got into a sex discussion and he just made the comment. I know if I had to give up all forms of sex but one--giving oral sex would be the keeper to me! So, when a girl "tastes good", "smells good" or is just plain old "good" I appreciate it immensely.

 

I agree that it is kissing and telling, but if this guy mentioned it to you on the sly and you are interested, ask him if he would like a taste--with a wink of course--that way you have an out!

[Helpme2004]

thnx it was a female friend he told but he didnt want her to tell me what he said thats the puzzling part.

[SoleMate]

I'd be flattered and appalled. Yes, I'd like to think that I taste good...but kissing and telling is really low and repellent. Especially when it is a highly personal detail like that. And then your friend passing the gossip around...OMG. Here cum Bill and Monica all over again. <snork>

[befuddled11]

Sorry, I guess I'm the kind of person who just doesn't (and never will) understand posts that ask questions like, "how should I feel?" or "is it okay to feel this way?"

 

A person feels what they feel. There's no right or wrong. What does it matter to you, what strangers on the internet think about what you should feel? You either feel repulsed or flattered or indifferent or whatever. What does it matter what we think? And he's your EX, so what does any of this matter anyway? *shrug*

[Tony T]

"What does it matter to you, what strangers on the internet think about what you should feel?"

 

I've always sort of wondered why people are sometimes concerned about that myself.

[average guy]

When I first read your post, I felt the same as someone else who replied thet the "other" friend was trying to "taste you" by telling you what your boyfriend said. Now I imagine a few different scenarios:

 

1. the "other" friend is bi or lesbian and DOES want to "taste you"!

 

2. That your bf wants to "taste" your "other" friend!

 

In either case, he really should not have told anyone seomthing as personal as that. It's been my exoerience (being your "average guy") that guys talking about sex sounds something like the following:

 

"Did you do it?"

 

"Yeah, we did it"

 

"Cool man, you did it"

 

"Yeah, we did it, man"

 

"Allright, dude"

 

"Yeah man"

 

Girls, however could spend hours detailing all the specifics of all the positions, tastes, feelings, etc. involved

 

And last but not least, consider yourself lucky that he like the way you "taste" - it could mean endles hours of pleasure for you in the future to come!

[Helpme2004]

true average guy it was a female friend he did tell but when i askedhim about it he said she was not suppose to tell.in other words he didnt want me to know he said it he asted quite embarrassed about it.

[Helpme2004]

and hes not my boyfriend hes my ex.

[Kat]

My ex used to brag to his mates that I was a good root and even went to say that I tasted 'like honey'.

 

I really don't care if I was bad or good, but you should share that with your best mate only (if you have too) but you do not make it public knowledge

[Helpme2004]

i agree kat should only be shared with the one you were with or are with but some arent like that.but whats puzzling on my part is that he told his female friend but didnt want her to tell me

[Kat]

Maybe he wanted to brag to make himself look good in a 'I go down on chicks and enjoy the taste' kinda way to them *shurgs* you never know

[Helpme2004]

true on some men but with him hes not that much of a bragger never has been unless its true in his eyes ohwell lol i guess it could of been something worse he could of told her.

[magda]

Well, what do you suspect? If all you have to say is "yeah, but" what answer are you looking for?

 

Well, I'll give it to you, maybe: what was he doing talking about sex with you, hmmm? saying how good you tasted? Sounds like he wouldn't mind getting nakey with you again, does it. he enjoyed it. I mean, when you are around random company and you suddenly start talking about how yummy your favorite ice cream is, wouldn't you say you have a craving to eat that icecream at that time or in the near future?

 

 

anyways, you obviously know this guy sooo owell, so you aren't going to find any answers here you don't know better yourself.

[Helpme2004]

He wasnt talking to me about sex lol..It was a female friend he said that to and she told me what he said and I asked him about it when he called me he said she wasnt suppose to tell you what i said.

[sweet-n-sexy]

Take it as a compliment and get over it. I mean he could have said something bad but he didn't so well now atleast you can feel comfortable with him going down on you if you get with him again right?