Is he the ONE

[appygrrl927]

Is it possible to actually know if someone is the ONE? How can you tell? I've met someone new since all of my other bad luck and it just seems like this one is the man of my dreams. Can someone please tell me how I can tell if my gut feeling is correct? Or is it just a hormone thing?Thanks inadvance for the replys

[iceprincess]

With every girl and every guy...to be able to know if he/she's the one is a difficult matter to some people. He's the one when he makes you feel emotionally good about yourself. He's the one when a rose is left on your car just because he's thinking about you. He's the one if he makes you smile. He's the one that you can be goofy with and he'll be goofy right along with you.

 

If he is the man of your dreams, then you would have doubts about your feelings for him. But if there are still things that you want to know about him or things that he does that bothers you, then talk about those issues with him.

 

Sometimes you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you meet prince charming, and when you do, you'll know it's him.

[bluechocolate]

You've met someone new? How long ago was that? The man of your dreams does not exist and there is no Prince Charming. I'm saying this because when the infatuation and delirium that happens at the beginning of a possible relationship wears out he's just a man, warts and all. And it's the man and his warts that you have to love, not the man in your dreams.

[appygrrl927]

Actually I've know this guy for a couple years now but I was previously involved and we remained friends.Now I'm single and we've decided to attempt a relationship .He is one of the sweetest men that I know. I don't think that I am in that delerium state that your talking about because i've seen every side there is to him even the "warts" as you say.And actually that is the part that I am in love with because I don't believe in that flowers and lovey-dovey thing because that inevetiably changes and never for the better.