rynocat_98 Posted April 29, 2004 Share Posted April 29, 2004 I have fallen in love with a wonderful person. Its as though we've known each other forever we just fit so perfectly together. We've never fought or argued and have never had to really work at having fun together. We have amazing sex and relate on a higher level than most. Last week my boyfriend and I had a wonderful wednesday night. During that time I received a phone call from a guy friend. Out of sheer stupidity I lied when he asked me who it was. I said it was my girlfriend. I kind of knew in the back of my mind that he knew it was a guy on the phone and felt bad about lying. After he left I didn't hear from him again until I received the e-mail below. I tried to explain to him that it was stupid of me, it was just an instantaneous reaction to being afraid to open up because I was married for a long time to someone who couldn't understand I could have male platonic friendships. Mind you my boyfriend has never given me any reason to not want to be honest with him but I guess it was a subconcious reaction. I wasn't trying to hide anything. I am not the type of person to mess around when I am in a serious relationship and he knew that. I apologized for making a dumb mistake both by e-mail and by phone (I left him a message because he won't talk to me). I also sent him a virtual card saying how sorry I was that I had disappointed him. To date I have not heard a word from him. Help I love him and I don't know what to do. Should I keep trying to contact him or should I give up? "It was the phone call you got when I was there this week (wed)..... It wasn't that he called even after you said that you didn't give your number to just anybody.....after all I was there with you so what possible difference did it make....I could hear his voice and that didn't bother me. I know I'm not the only one that calls you....When I asked you who it was you didn't even stop to think....you said it was, Sylvia or some girls name....I could hear it was a man and he was asking where you were going to be at NIOSA....you said it would be easy to find you because you were one of a kind...Im not a jealous person but it started to bother me later that you felt the need to not be truthful with me about who it was.....something else to work through I guess.........The secret to winning is something only a gambler understands................................................................." Link to post Share on other sites
Sarah_J_uk Posted April 29, 2004 Share Posted April 29, 2004 i say keep trying: he sounds like hes well worth it. besides he said it was something to work through which sounds like he was willing to give it a go. Just give him some more time see if he comes round. Link to post Share on other sites
mintjulep Posted April 29, 2004 Share Posted April 29, 2004 Yes, keep trying, but not actively. If you distract yourself, you'll be less likely to leave 12 emails in his inbox per day. Just call him in a week or so, and apologize again. Be somewhat breezy, if you think that will help. Don't pretend it didn't happen, and act as though you're trying to move past it - but also let him realize that you've learned from it. (If that made any sense) Link to post Share on other sites
tech Posted April 30, 2004 Share Posted April 30, 2004 hey i'm new and all but i have a question how do i talk to girls on the phone i mean i cantalk to girls up front but its like i go blank when i talk to girls over the phone so i was wonderin if you could help Link to post Share on other sites
tech Posted April 30, 2004 Share Posted April 30, 2004 wat kind of topics should i talk about to her i have no clue how to talk to girls maybe if i learned i'd be able to talk to more girls Link to post Share on other sites
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