drifter777 Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 My own story in brief since it's my first post here. Been on TAM since Dec. 27 years married, 20 years cheated - 3 men, 3rd was 18yrs and friend - MY daughter 16yrs old not mine biologically. Now - I decided early on despite her not willing to stop that I loved her too much and would fight for her. Troll. Don't believe a word of your story. Link to post Share on other sites
Severely Unamused Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 Troll. Don't believe a word of your story. I believe that he is actually a fairly established poster from a similar forum (TAM = Talking About Marriage). Nothing would lead me to believe that he is a troll. But to each his own. To stay on topic, not everybody can truly get over an affair. I believe that many are left with lifelong scars. I won't deny that my own husband's actions have hurt me. However, his infidelity in itself is not the primary reason that I have chosen to divorce him. I would suggest that for the sake of the BS's own sanity (and not just for the preservation of their marriage), that they try their damned hardest to "get over" the affair. Choosing to stay with or leave their WS is only one aspect of their recovery process. Link to post Share on other sites
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