SugarHoney Posted August 9, 2011 Share Posted August 9, 2011 I've been holding so tightly to false hopes that my ex wanted me back for so long now, and he was giving me so many mixed signals so I really thought I had a chance. But now he's whipped all that away from me again, turning a cold shoulder to my confessions of undying love and ignoring my queries about the status of our relationship. Its all breaking my heart all over again and I feel so responsible for his rejection of me. Its like I'm completely worthless. Like I'm nothing to him, nothing to anyone, nothing without him. Like I'm empty and broken inside. And I can't stop crying. been crying so intensely for hours now. Link to post Share on other sites
smudge21 Posted August 9, 2011 Share Posted August 9, 2011 We all have those hopes, every little bit of contact from my ex gives me that warm happy feeling, but it never lasts. You have to focus on what you know for a fact, that he has sadly moved on and you have to do the same. Do not think that this is all your fault either. There are many reasons why people split up, and it's never just one persons fault. You say you feel worthless, but you're basing this on your feelings for one person. One out of 6.7 billion. You should base your entire worth on the actions of one person. We all feel like you do when things like this happen, so gain some strength in knowing that you're not alone. You're going to feel terrible right now and that's okay. You need to let these feelings out and accept this sadness for your loss. You also need to focus on you now and healing, that means no contact. Link to post Share on other sites
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