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Okay, I'll admit that I have a crush on this guy I know. I feel like I'm in high school again, getting all giddy when he calls, checking for new messages everyday... I would say its pretty equal when it comes to who's calling who.

 

We've only gotten to know each other recently and have been on a two dates. He lives an hour away but does not seem to mind driving an hour to pick me up before a date. I like him a lot and am really comfortable around him but I'm afraid that I'm obsessing too much. If I am right about guys, the fact that he's making the trip for a 2 hour date says something but if I'm wrong please tell me. The last time we were on a date I sort of said goodbye in a hurry coz I couldn't read the situation well. I thought I messed up my chances but he called me 3 days later. Neither of us have made a move on the other yet and I'm too scared to be upfront about how I feel and always play it cool when I'm around him. It's driving me mad! I can't stop thinking about him and I really really want to know what he thinks of all this.

 

I don't think it's healthy for me for being so caught up over someone I don't know too well. I really want to get to know him better but at the same time, I don't want to hope for something that might not come to be. please advise on ways to cope with a crush and stop obsessing. Thanks.

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have you been hurt a lot/ had a rejection you've not gotten over? How's your self-esteem?

'Cause you seem to be worrying an awful lot, when things are clearly progressing nicely.

 

I'd call it a crush when the other person doesn't know how you feel/ doesn't feel the same.

 

Course he likes you or he wouldn't be spending time with you.

 

Relax and enjoy yourself.

 

[/b]I don't want to hope for something that might not come to be

 

Well you can't know what is going to happen- except nothing if you don't give it a chance!

 

As for not obsessing- make sure you retain the rest of your life, friendships, activities etc.

 

Good luck, have fun!

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