bikinibeach Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 i don't mean to sound patronizing, but i just thought i'd stop by and share. hopefully those of you who feel hopeless can see this and realize i felt just like you not too long ago! but yeah. because i was completely able to move on from obsessive thoughts about my ex UNTIL i met someone new, i realized i wasn't sad and obsessed over HIM or even the RELATIONSHIP. it was about me. bringing out my fear of abandonement and feelings that i am not worthy of love. i am now heavily involved with the dreamiest, sweetest, most romantic guy ever! keep smiling Link to post Share on other sites
antinko Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 Congratulations. I hope it works out well for you both. Link to post Share on other sites
Nohbody Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 Seriously: be careful. I am wishing you the best. Link to post Share on other sites
PelicanPete Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 lol, you sound just like my ex girlfriend. It's good you're happy again, but hopefully it isn't just a facade to forget about your ex. That's not how you deal with problems. Just be careful with how you're feeling. My ex used another relationship to get over ours, fell head over heels, and married the guy 4 months in. He gave her what she thought was an easy way out, which only made her attracted to him even more. He satisfied her co-dependence and fear of being alone. Now that the dust has settled, things for her aren't as great as what she thought they would be. I hope that isn't the case for you. Link to post Share on other sites
stopthemadness Posted August 11, 2011 Share Posted August 11, 2011 i don't mean to sound patronizing, but i just thought i'd stop by and share. hopefully those of you who feel hopeless can see this and realize i felt just like you not too long ago! but yeah. because i was completely able to move on from obsessive thoughts about my ex UNTIL i met someone new, i realized i wasn't sad and obsessed over HIM or even the RELATIONSHIP. it was about me. bringing out my fear of abandonement and feelings that i am not worthy of love. i am now heavily involved with the dreamiest, sweetest, most romantic guy ever! keep smiling You go girl!! As Taylor Swift would say. Go into this "Fearless". You can and will love again. We all will (smday). Iam comen to think that I havent meet smone else yet because Iam not ready. Its been a little over a year now (was 2gether 8+ yrs) And although my healing is going great, I still miss him smtimes. But I NEVER act on it. He (my ex) does. Hes reached out to me many many times. But I dont respond. Oh except this one time on my birthday. I responded with Thanks for remembering. And That was that. I know he misses me. Cause him and my daughter tex. Anyway.... Good for you!! The rest of us are yet to follow...cant wait... Link to post Share on other sites
patagonia Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 i don't mean to sound patronizing, but i just thought i'd stop by and share. hopefully those of you who feel hopeless can see this and realize i felt just like you not too long ago! but yeah. because i was completely able to move on from obsessive thoughts about my ex UNTIL i met someone new, i realized i wasn't sad and obsessed over HIM or even the RELATIONSHIP. it was about me. bringing out my fear of abandonement and feelings that i am not worthy of love. i am now heavily involved with the dreamiest, sweetest, most romantic guy ever! keep smiling lol has he found out this might be a short term fling I'm glad you are happy and I'm glad you found a stud! Protect your heart just in case Link to post Share on other sites
ScienceGal Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 Take the good where you can get it. I LOVE that lovers high. I hope that it keeps going and there is nothing but fun and happiness for you! Link to post Share on other sites
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