Glove_slap Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 If they rebounded weeks after a long term serious relationship (eg. 3 years) It's been already a year since my ex broke up with me and started dating her current older and richer boyfriend (drug dealer). I'm pretty sure they're still together. We we're high school sweet hearts but lived in different areas and went to different high schools, we we're each other's firsts and first loves so I know its unrealistic to think we'd always be together but I still miss and think about her every now and then and I miss the feeling she gave me. I'm not sure if I would take her back if she ever did come back because who know what went on between them behind closed doors and also the fact that she completely destroyed my world the days after she broke up with me. I'm just curious if they ever do because it seems women (especially attractive ones like her) always have men lining up just waiting for them to fall down. Her last real words to me we're, "I'm young and just want to have fun". Link to post Share on other sites
wilsonx Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 Let her go, its over. Do you honestly want her back after shes hanging out with a drug dealer boyfriend. I know you still have feelings but after a year, they should be gone. I dont know about you but once someone leaves me for someone else. Its over. I don't want them back. I do not want to be their door mat. Been there done that have the t-shirt and it sucks. Find bigger and better things then your ex. It doesn't matter anymore what shes doing. Link to post Share on other sites
JasonRules Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 For my part all my ex girlfriend came back at one point or another; one came back after 3 years, but I never took anyone back because I couldn't trust them again. I figured if they ended things and didn't make an effort to make things work, I couldn't depend on them for a life together. Whether or not my current ex will come back I do not know, but I think if it were to come down to it I would not take her back. Why would I take someone back that hurt me for months and betrayed me possibly for another guy? Have some pride...find the woman who will be willing to give you everything. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Nohbody Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 This is funny, actually: My first girlfriend (when I was 16) contacted me on facebook a few days before my most recent relationship ended. So... it took her 12 years, but she came crawling back . I immediately blocked her without responding. No hard feelings, but no desire to entangle my life with hers in any way, shape, or form. Link to post Share on other sites
EgoJoe Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 Quite simply to "do they ever come back" the answer is yes. For many different reasons. Link to post Share on other sites
0hpenelope Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 Yes, they come back sometimes. Link to post Share on other sites
fauxleather Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 The question is why would you want someone who gave up on you to come back? Link to post Share on other sites
DazyDaisy Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 They'll come back if you don't beg to them lol. It'll mess with their head that you're not dying to be with them (since she's hot and has dudes begging to be with her). Link to post Share on other sites
Dblock10 Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 yeah thats true. if they want to come back you cant beg them. just simply ignore and live your life really! the only way of course you will think about them but thats normal. im going to focus on the ****ty stuff she did when i was with her. this will put me off putting her on a pedastool Link to post Share on other sites
antinko Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 yeah thats true. if they want to come back you cant beg them. just simply ignore and live your life really! the only way of course you will think about them but thats normal. im going to focus on the ****ty stuff she did when i was with her. this will put me off putting her on a pedastool Yeh, this will be my coping strategy for when I'm out tonight if I bump into my ex and her new man. I feel a bit childish doing this, but it's for my sanity. Link to post Share on other sites
lana_sa Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 do male dumpers ever come back? Link to post Share on other sites
0hpenelope Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 do male dumpers ever come back? Yes, they sometimes come back, too. Seriously, focus on just healing and moving on. It's when you don't think about them or care for them that contact usually happens. And if you've moved on and taken care of yourself, if your ex comes back or contacts or is never heard from again, it won't matter at all. Link to post Share on other sites
radiodarcy Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 Yes, they sometimes come back, too. Seriously, focus on just healing and moving on. It's when you don't think about them or care for them that contact usually happens. And if you've moved on and taken care of yourself, if your ex comes back or contacts or is never heard from again, it won't matter at all. agreed. i'm finally starting to move past the point where i'm having that hope that he'll come back. it's probably better that he doesn't anyway. i'm better off without him Link to post Share on other sites
TheHurtProcess Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 Yes, sometimes they do come back. Not always, but just about every girlfriend I've ever had has come back at least once if not several times after a breakup (or several breakups). My most previous ex-gf just came back into my life about a week ago. I believe that it was Monday evening when I got a text from her asking how I was doing. I had gone NC for about 2 months prior. She tried contacting me about a month ago, but I ignored her message. This time I figured that enough time had gone by that I could make an attempt at being friends. Well, to be honest... both of us know that a friendship isn't really feasible between the two of us and we sort of ended up getting a little too friendly. However, this is more of a trial run at the moment, because I'm not sure whether I'm going to stick around for a bit or make a run for it, leaving her with the good ol' aftertaste of her very own medicine I think I'd rather have that happen then get abandoned/ditched again out of nowhere, with no explanation or any reason whatsoever. At least I'll have full control over the situation then, hehehe. Link to post Share on other sites
blakjak Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 what is love?! baby don't hurt me.... don't hurt me.... NO MORE!!! i have slept with 2 of my ex girlfriends..... does that count? Link to post Share on other sites
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