Italianheart Posted May 1, 2004 Share Posted May 1, 2004 All right, i'll start by explainin wassup. I'm andre, i'm 16, and i've been goin out with Sandy for about 4 months and a half. She's 14.... I love this gurl more than anything, i know i'm 16 an all, some ppl may think that i'm just too young for that, but i can't help it. I love her, and i wanna be w her. She's always had problems with her family, and usually when somenthing happens in her house, she goes to school with a bad attitude and takes it out on everybody else, including me. I've always told her that if she had family problems she could come and talk to me about it. I've had to go through all of that too. Instead she had to just come with her attitude and cause lil fights. So anyways, about 1 month ago, she decided to break up w me, cuz she said she didn't feel the same way anymore, and that she didn't feel comfortable with me anymore, and that she felt like being alone, and she was already having too many problems with her family. I didnt take it too well, i was trippin for a whole week. The weekend after she broke up w me, we talked on the phone for about 4-5 hours. I got her to open up w me by describing every moment of the day i asked her out. I got her to say that she loved me. Then when we were deep in the conversation she mentioned that there was another reason for the break up. There was this one fool, who she'd known for like 3 years. the weekend before she broke up w me, she went to her soccer game sad because of somenthing, not sure what, and he was there... and he was talking to her, and making her smile, and takin advantage on the situtation. so basically she told me she had a lil crush on him. Well she told me that she was gonna spend time w him on the weekend at her soccer games, and she said that if nothing happened w him, she would've come back w me. Well she made it through the weekend, and i asked her out again when we went back to school. we were happy for about a month, then two weeks ago, somenthing happened again w her family, somenthing bad apparantly. She called for a break. I understood.. and we had this break... It lasted til today. Today she came up to me, and she told me that, she didn't feel comfortable around me anymore and htat she wanted to be alone, and that she had problems w her family... I just don't kwno what to think... she gave me the exact same thing she did last time. I understand that she's havin problems w her family, but damn... that's why i'm there. What does it take to come talk to me.... I feel horrible, I love her, i need her, i really want her back, i don't wanna let her go... what can i do... Link to post Share on other sites
Dulce_Angel_Whispers Posted May 1, 2004 Share Posted May 1, 2004 Well she told me that she was gonna spend time w him on the weekend at her soccer games, and she said that if nothing happened w him, she would've come back w me. Ok what is so great about this person and so bad about you that you would accept being 2nd choice? I understand you have love for her and you dated for awhile but obviously she is 14 and wants freedom to date other people. I don't mean to sound harsh but there is no way anyone knows what they want at age 14-16 no one can know what the future holds especially for the rest of their life. If she liked someone else enough to break up with then you deserve better. I wouldn't keep chasing this girl because let me tell you the more you chase her the less she will be interested. IF you HAVE to try and win her back then give her space have fun without her and maybe once she sees you moving on she will come running back. Some girls are weird like that, they only want what it seems they can't have! Link to post Share on other sites
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