Kivu Posted August 16, 2011 Share Posted August 16, 2011 I've started a few threads before about my troubled marriage. He was having an inappropriate relationship with a woman, and abusive, and lying to people about being married to me. Ever since he agreed that we should have a "wedding" in Vegas as a way to come out to everyone that we're married it's been an entirely different relationship. We still argue occasionally but it's a far more give-and-take situation, where he tries to see my side of it, and he's actually admitted he was wrong on more than one occasion. He's completely stopped being aggressive towards me and he's stopped talking to that girl entirely (and she's moving to a different town, joy!). We got "married" last week in front of my parents. His entire family and all his friends know he's married now. He's been remarkably sweet and understanding, thoughtful and caring, and he's been spending lots of time with me and generally being the way he was when we first met, the guy I fell in love with. My parents are happy and so are his, and our friends have all congratulated us. I am starting to think I was right all along, that he hadn't fully committed to me even though we were married; that he was holding part of himself back and looking at the greener grass on the other side of the fence. That something has changed inside of him and he's realised that he really does want to be with me. I think those conflicting feelings were making him miserable, and now that he's not conflicted he's much happier with our relationship. Don't worry, I'm still watchful to see whether that aggressive and abusive side of him resurfaces. But as it is, and if it stays this way, I'm happy. Link to post Share on other sites
denise_xo Posted August 16, 2011 Share Posted August 16, 2011 Kivu, I'm so glad to hear good news from you! Wishing you a healthy and happy life together :bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
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