Do Men Have the Right to Trade in Their Aging Wives for Younger Ones?

[Pyro]

Therefore, I think it is also fair for men who remain successful over the course of their marriages to want to trade their wives once they have aged and no longer living up to their bargain for younger and more beautiful women.

 

if those men enjoy being castrated then I agree with you 100%

[Scottdmw]

The OP’s statement makes perfect sense given a certain worldview. If a person's idea of marriage is that it is intended to make them happy and can be ended whenever they don't feel happy about it, then what the OP says is perfectly correct. If a person believes they are free to leave a marriage if they no longer feel in love with their spouse, then what the OP suggests is equally legitimate, if a bit on the calculating side.

 

If you don't like this outcome, I think the only way to get away from it is to go to what could be called a much more traditional view of marriage, where the vow “till death do us part” means something. It only happens if both the man and the woman make a decision to stick with it even though they know perfectly well there may be a “better thing” somewhere out there.

 

Scott

[Pyro]

The OP’s statement makes perfect sense given a certain worldview. If a person's idea of marriage is that it is intended to make them happy and can be ended whenever they don't feel happy about it, then what the OP says is perfectly correct. If a person believes they are free to leave a marriage if they no longer feel in love with their spouse, then what the OP suggests is equally legitimate, if a bit on the calculating side.

 

that is a warped view on marriage. If anyone looks that way at marriage then don't get married, just stay in a long-term relationship. That view is even more disgusting when the couple has children.

[John Michael Kane]

Don't want to burst your bubble, but when you pay them I don't think you can really call it a date.

 

You're not bursting anyone's bubble because women these days expect a man to pay for everything and anything. So essentially you are "paying" them.

[reboot]

JMK, google "tongue in cheek"

[John Michael Kane]

JMK, google "tongue in cheek"

 

Off-topic completely but I'm sorry you don't agree with me.

[John Michael Kane]

People who initiate divorce should not be eligible for alimony.

 

But what if those people were cheated on? Don't you think they deserve to strip their wayward spouse financially as much as possible?

[Shaun-Dro]

Generally most marital relationships are formed between a more financially secure older man and a beautiful younger woman. I think at face value, this is a fair arrangement because women want a man who can be the main provider of the family while men want a woman who is youthful and beautiful.

 

However, unlike money, beauty can only fade rather than grow along with time.

 

Therefore, I think it is also fair for men who remain successful over the course of their marriages to want to trade their wives once they have aged and no longer living up to their bargain for younger and more beautiful women.

 

I can't lie, I love this theory as I'm all about wanting a young beautiful lady to have because I believe in tradition. I also know for a fact that an older woman is not my cup of tea unless she ages really well and stays as fit and sexy as possible, which is rare. And willing to embrace her role.

 

Another reason I prefer a younger, homebody type is that I don't have to worry about her working ridiculous jobs to make that bread and competing with me in the household because she makes X amount of money. That's an annoyance and it kills the role setup between man and woman.

 

That's one of the main reasons I always seek out young women in certain venues like stores or community colleges with the mentality of wanting to be a "real" woman to her man and allow him to lead the way.

 

I stay the hell away from businesswomen because most have a chip above their shoulders and don't really care about relationships until they've made more money than they can handle (usually when she hits 40-45) before it finally dawns on her to setlle down. She's then least desirable physically by that time, however.

[Spark1111]

I can't lie, I love this theory as I'm all about wanting a young beautiful lady to have because I believe in tradition. I also know for a fact that an older woman is not my cup of tea unless she ages really well and stays as fit and sexy as possible, which is rare. And willing to embrace her role.

 

Another reason I prefer a younger, homebody type is that I don't have to worry about her working ridiculous jobs to make that bread and competing with me in the household because she makes X amount of money. That's an annoyance and it kills the role setup between man and woman.

 

That's one of the main reasons I always seek out young women in certain venues like stores or community colleges with the mentality of wanting to be a "real" woman to her man and allow him to lead the way.

 

I stay the hell away from businesswomen because most have a chip above their shoulders and don't really care about relationships until they've made more money than they can handle (usually when she hits 40-45) before it finally dawns on her to setlle down. She's then least desirable physically by that time, however.

 

You must be living under a rock.

 

Women are dating younger men in record numbers, and it is the younger men who seem to want a financially secure, sexually experienced lover who places few demands on him other than he take care of himself physically and giver her his undivided attention.

 

 

Wow! Just like men! Imagine that?

[John Michael Kane]

You must be living under a rock.

 

Women are dating younger men in record numbers, and it is the younger men who seem to want a financially secure, sexually experienced lover who places few demands on him other than he take care of himself physically and giver her his undivided attention.

 

 

Wow! Just like men! Imagine that?

 

That's a generalized stereotype of a men's wants and you know it.

[ladydesigner]

I can't lie, I love this theory as I'm all about wanting a young beautiful lady to have because I believe in tradition. I also know for a fact that an older woman is not my cup of tea unless she ages really well and stays as fit and sexy as possible, which is rare. And willing to embrace her role.

 

Another reason I prefer a younger, homebody type is that I don't have to worry about her working ridiculous jobs to make that bread and competing with me in the household because she makes X amount of money. That's an annoyance and it kills the role setup between man and woman.

 

That's one of the main reasons I always seek out young women in certain venues like stores or community colleges with the mentality of wanting to be a "real" woman to her man and allow him to lead the way.

 

I stay the hell away from businesswomen because most have a chip above their shoulders and don't really care about relationships until they've made more money than they can handle (usually when she hits 40-45) before it finally dawns on her to setlle down. She's then least desirable physically by that time, however.

 

Wow really happy I'm not with a man who views women this way. The last thing I ever want to be is subservient. No thanks!

[ladydesigner]

You must be living under a rock.

 

Women are dating younger men in record numbers, and it is the younger men who seem to want a financially secure, sexually experienced lover who places few demands on him other than he take care of himself physically and giver her his undivided attention.

 

 

Wow! Just like men! Imagine that?

 

Love this response. So true and you see it more and more all the time.

 

I am constantly hit on by younger men (20 somethings) and I am no where near my twenties anymore:laugh:

[scaredandalone1223]

If I were married to a man who was that superficial I would tell him goodbye and good luck!

 

Another reason why I love the fact my husband thinks I'm more beautiful with no makeup on in my lounge clothes. That and the fact that he wouldn't want a newer model when he has already invested so much time in making sure his currently model fits together with him so well. I know after almost 14 years I wouldn't want to have to 'train' a new one!

[Eve]

Generally most marital relationships are formed between a more financially secure older man and a beautiful younger woman. I think at face value, this is a fair arrangement because women want a man who can be the main provider of the family while men want a woman who is youthful and beautiful.

 

However, unlike money, beauty can only fade rather than grow along with time.

 

Therefore, I think it is also fair for men who remain successful over the course of their marriages to want to trade their wives once they have aged and no longer living up to their bargain for younger and more beautiful women.

 

 

What is this nonsense? Guile.. absolute guile..

 

Muse.. you need to stop being so childish now you are an adult. At least share who you are and why you feel so negatively about relationships.

 

Methinks (after much thought) that you are a repressed gay male.

 

If you deny this and ever treat a woman as detailed above, love was never there. There is no other answer. I would challenge you get some therapy or at least buy a wife so the boundaries are equally distributed.

 

Sir, this is not a loving thing which you propose.. continually in your posts. Your posts are the very root from which feminism was born and will live on..

 

 

Take care,

Eve x

[Afishwithabike]

I also think it's fair for an older woman to trade her impotent (ED) husband for a fit, younger man.

 

Yes.

 

If a man can trade in an older woman then a woman should be able to trade in a man when he's impotent/has premature ejaculation, etc. It's all fair, isn't it?

[FitChick]

Since men die about ten years sooner than women, women should marry younger men so they won't be widows for a long a time afterward.

[FitChick]

If, after twenty or so years of marriage, a man divorces his wife for a younger woman, they will be dividing the community property in half. Would the younger woman want the guy who now only has half as much money and property as before? Especially if she wants her own kids and he is paying child support on top of that amount. Not very practical. She'd be better off dating a single guy with no baggage.

[soserious1]

But what if those people were cheated on? Don't you think they deserve to strip their wayward spouse financially as much as possible?

 

My ex-husband was the unfaithful partner in our marriage, he successfully stripped me fiscally in court, lifetime alimony with full medical & co-pays for him regardless of what happens to me fiscally, I pay or I go to jail.

[Rayne03]

Why get married? What you describe is not marriage, it's more of an arrangement in which I would hope your partner would be aware of and in agreement of. Marriage is not a constitution you enter in planning on it being short term.