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How TO Deal with Kid who's really difficult(and fights)???


quietGuy13

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My cousin has a kid who just doesn't stop, he's so hyper and also doesn't listen. He fights with people, he hits people specificaly: his mom, his cousin, Me..etc. You try to teach em nicely...and he screams back and argues and says badwords etc.

 

Then you try to defend yourself and block em or something but it's hard and a few times because i was trying to defend myself he fell over and hit his head or something. IN fact today he was hitting and kicking his cousin and i tried to sto phim and he fell over easily and then hit his head and it was really bloody. dripping blood. eventually we stopped it.. (went to hospital)

 

 

but still.....why some kids are nice and simple to educate and some kids are just really difficult. WHat is the solution?

 

I'm not his mom but his mom has soo much trouble. Mind you, it's not a united family , father is out of the picture and father/mother have argued a lot since he was a baby.

 

He's about 6 i think.

 

Obviously , it's not me who's in charge, but what would they need to do to educate him and to get him to calm down and not be like that.

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TwinkletOes26

Wow quiet guy this must be the same child my boyfriend has in his family. That little boy is so bad that he tried to not only kick another child but is grandma when she tried to stop him. Please anyone who has any advice id like to know too.

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I would suggest having this poor little boy evaluated. There are interventions to help with behavior modification and help him deal in situations where he can be out of control. Check with the school district's special education office to set up an evaluation. He must be suffering on the inside and lashing out... a cry for help.

 

Best of luck.

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Yes, I would definately make an appointment to speak with the school counselor at the very least. If he is this out of control at age 6, imagine what it will be like when he's 12! The school counselor should be able to guide you from there as to where and what sort of help there is available. Sooner the better!

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