confusedgirl Posted May 2, 2004 Share Posted May 2, 2004 so it is never too late to change? im very much up for changing if i wasnt to change i would just ruin everything that means the most to me but i guess ur right,it isnt everything its just sumthing apart of my life that has become special,he says hes in love with me,even still after my sulking.i guess i shud wake up and smell the coffee now that if i dont change ill lose him and itll b my fault and nothin was wrong at all.but how am i to become mind powerful and allow him to go out with his mates and get drunk at night clubs and mayb go on holiday with his mates...how am i to stop thinkin obsessive thoughts and paranoia? im with him and thats all that should matter,but why cant i stop these thoughts thats drivin me to say silly things? Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted May 2, 2004 Share Posted May 2, 2004 Change to me means self-improvement, not changing the way I feel about something to please somebody else. There is a big difference. You sound quite upset. Maybe when you've gathered yourself a bit you could expand your post and provide some more information about your situation? I'm sure people would like to know more before answering further. Cheers Link to post Share on other sites
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