kevin102280 Posted August 17, 2011 Share Posted August 17, 2011 (edited) My fiance has a son and we get along great, when were alone. However, when she is with me and her son my attitude changes a bit because she spoils him so bad and i dont want him to see us as two push overs who will do everything for him. She puts on his cloths, brushes his teeth literally, holds the tissue up to his nose to help him blow it, she doesnt even tell him to cover his nose when he sneezes. And if he sneezes he just leans his head over, blows out snot that is now hanging from his nose and moms runs to get a kleenex, ties his shoes for him. When he falls down infront of me i ask you alright and he says yeah. But then runs away to his mom and starts crying. When he is JUST WITH ME he behaves and does as i say. But when he is with me and his mom he acts like a brat. For example the other day we were on the playground just me and him and he took his shoes off to run around and i said you should probably put those back on you may get a blister and he did. But she would of just put them back on no explanation. I feel what i am doing is letting him do what he wants and learn from his mistakes. Obviosiously im not going to let him get hurt. But if he wants to skateboard with no shoes on ill tell him go ahead and let me know how that works out for you. But she will say no you use shoes. Its like come on mom he will never learn if you act like that all the time... For you moms out there how can i get my fiance to stop baby him and understand what i am doing? Or are my methods of he'll figure it out in the wrong? Edited August 17, 2011 by kevin102280 Link to post Share on other sites
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