Author sinkerswim Posted May 7, 2004 Author Share Posted May 7, 2004 WHY do they do this? I guess because the right thing to do would be painful for them and us...they took the easy way out. I am very dissapointed in him. Normally, this is sooo not like him. Link to post Share on other sites
meanttolive4ever Posted May 7, 2004 Share Posted May 7, 2004 Originally posted by sinkerswim WHY do they do this? I guess because the right thing to do would be painful for them and us...they took the easy way out. I am very dissapointed in him. Normally, this is sooo not like him. i have no clue...he's the love of my life...i duno what to do Link to post Share on other sites
aroseInLove Posted May 7, 2004 Share Posted May 7, 2004 .. yeah I thought mine was the love of my life too... though he said I was too.. it's too bad I sure wasn't the love of his life just the same.. because if I were, this never would be happening.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sinkerswim Posted May 7, 2004 Author Share Posted May 7, 2004 All I know is..right now I am very, very depressed. Its Friday night without him again. My fiance always told me I was soo good to him and he would never leave me. All of a sudden..Im controlling and dont let him do anything. 8 years...he let go because of that. I let him do ALOT of things. Ive never held him back. I was controlling in some ways...but jeez. Never thought he would dump me because of it. Link to post Share on other sites
meanttolive4ever Posted May 7, 2004 Share Posted May 7, 2004 Originally posted by sinkerswim All I know is..right now I am very, very depressed. Its Friday night without him again. My fiance always told me I was soo good to him and he would never leave me. All of a sudden..Im controlling and dont let him do anything. 8 years...he let go because of that. I let him do ALOT of things. Ive never held him back. I was controlling in some ways...but jeez. Never thought he would dump me because of it. hmm its the same excuse over and over...like i had a friend ask him to come over so we could talk about stuff...all he kept saying was that he couldnt because he was with his g/f and she was like yea she just wants to talk to you..he was like i cant...so meaning if he wasnt with her he wouldve came over Link to post Share on other sites
BlueHeavens Posted May 7, 2004 Share Posted May 7, 2004 I totally hear you guys and the "Coward's way out" concept...maybe my ego is out of whack, but I'd be pretty upset if someone thought I was a coward because of the way I handled something in a personal relationship. The fact that my ex couln't even talk to me about stuff except over the phone made him seem very cowardly to me, and he lessened his esteem in my eyes. I guess he doesn't care...but it's interesting, isn't it? Yeah, Fridays alone can suck, esp after a crummy day at work. I think I may clean like mad. Bleah! Link to post Share on other sites
aroseInLove Posted May 7, 2004 Share Posted May 7, 2004 Originally posted by sinkerswim All I know is..right now I am very, very depressed. Its Friday night without him again. My fiance always told me I was soo good to him and he would never leave me. All of a sudden..Im controlling and dont let him do anything. 8 years...he let go because of that. I let him do ALOT of things. Ive never held him back. I was controlling in some ways...but jeez. Never thought he would dump me because of it. Mine always told me I was so good to him to and that he would never leave me... then that horrid day came... when calls lessened.. calls didn't get returned.. and my all of a sudden.. was that I'm scaring him with my anxiousness.. in what if he was hurt.. why is he not calling.. OMG maybe he was in an accident.. OMG maybe he has someone else.. well, funny, if the norm in your relationship takes a detour, then isn't it a concern? and I say geeez.. ...he let go because of that... had to be something else.. I let him do ALOT of things too.. he took 5 2 week vacations alone while 3 of them I was off at the same time.. I never once got an invite.. not even a discussion.. . I never held him back.. never questioned his reason to go 'alone'.. .mine just doesn't 'add up' at all.. Link to post Share on other sites
meanttolive4ever Posted May 8, 2004 Share Posted May 8, 2004 mine said that i did too much stuff for him...like i guess i did everything for him instead of letting him do stuff...hell i duno...wtf am i smelling his cologne? i havent sprayed it since the last time he was here and that was in like january Link to post Share on other sites
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