It never really gets better you just learn to live with it

[andyg99]

Another line I fell for several times: All men are A-holes only interested in one thing from a women. Aha says I, I will take my time and slowly let nature take it course, only to be dumped becasue I wasn't man enough to push the relationship toward the bedroom.

 

 

yeah, I took that nice guy approach only to send them into the arms of someone else! now if I'm ever told that I'm only intersted in that one thing I'll say "no, I'm interested in several things but make no mistake that one thing is defintely one of them..."

[worlybear]

yeah, I took that nice guy approach only to send them into the arms of someone else! now if I'm ever told that I'm only intersted in that one thing I'll say "no, I'm interested in several things but make no mistake that one thing is defintely one of them..."

Honesty! I love it!!:laugh:

[2.50 a gallon]

Willow

 

I have fallen in deeply in love three different times, ex-fiance, ExW and my present GF.

 

The ex-fiance, was hispanic, very big on family get togethers and having a large family, with lots of cousins, etc. She was highly ambitious, our long range plan was to use our contacts and wheel and deal in realestate properties, and some day live in a mansion, with at least 3 if not more kids, the kids were already named, she liked to hike and fish, and before settling down, our first plan was to drive to Alaska, towards that end we had already purchased a large motor home, made affordable by our first transactions. She supported my racing, and when we could afford it, she encouraged me to up grade into more expensive forumula cars. When we broke up I was sure that I could never find anything that special again

 

That is until the ExW came along. The ExW was super sexy, knew it and dressed accordingly, loved to wear lingere for me, she was afraid for me and did not like my racing, she did not like hiking, was so-so on fishing, but was an avid canoer, which she introduced me to. We were already making plans for a trip back east to New England the following summer to do some canoing, we were even going to try kayaking. Our long range plans were for a couple of kids and a house with a large basement. The basement would contain a large, workbench and shop for my model building skills, RD planes, trains and autmobiles, she liked Radio Contral race cars, and I was going to switch over and try RC boats. She also liked doing the scenary on my dioramas, and the plan was for us to build a large model railroad for us and the kids. I was sure I could never have anything that special again

 

That is until I met my curremt GF. She is the most loving giving lover I have ever shared my life with. Last week she dropped many hundreds of dollars for a new couch for us, as for payment from my side, she reminded me that I had paid for our recliner and bought our kitchen table and chairs She is special, she blows my exs totally out of the water with her loving and kindness. And, I have recently found what I believe a full body shot of my ExW on the internet. My current GF still has a hour glass figure and is eye candy, the Ex is not. Divorce is the best thing that ever happened to me.

 

Someday you too will find some body new and it will be a totally new relationship, with new ideas, interests, foods, what have you and it will be even more special the that which you lost. Trust me it will happen

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missing words

[2.50 a gallon]

I came so close to blowing it with my current GF. I had felt from tlhe first time I met her that there could be something special there. Two years later, we had our first date, she had just broken with her long time live in boyfriend and just wanted to go out as friends and take her first step into the dating world. Me, I was on my best behavior.

 

Thankfully there was a second almost as boring date, I sensed that I was rapidly losing ground, so in the second half of the date, I went back to my old ways, jacuzzi and pina coladas.

 

Little did I know that she had already made up her mind that this would be the last date.

 

In two weeks it will be 16 years and we are both grateful that I changed tactics

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[Farrah]

Not sure what your trying to say...everything you said is a reason to rejoice and the very fact you are alive is a reason to thank God and rejoice.Then do you think a strong mind as yours cannot let go off the ex's demon.It is a choice to spit it out or suck on it. Which one do you choose.If you suck on it remember its bitter. If you spit it out you can try a new candy...lol

 

Two and a half years on, I have achieved a law degree and legal practice, I have a job...

 

I have reached indifference towards my ex.

 

I am unhappy, desperately unhappy.

[mike111]

I am unhappy, desperately unhappy.

 

I completely understand how you feel.

 

mike