uongy Posted May 3, 2004 Share Posted May 3, 2004 hey.i have a large group of separate friends.my friends from school are to b separate from my friends outside of school whom are mainly girls and separate from my school friends. well its hard to make time for everyone all the time as i also have to study hard for my studies at school. well i thought i had found a solution that worked where id see my female friends at parties on saturday nights normally and talk to all my friends at school in school.i talk to al my friends online too. anyway,i sent this email where you put all kinds of wierd personal stuff.the first Question was "who are your best friends?" and i ignored my guy friends because its a girls email really.i sent it to all my friends though. one of my best mates who is a guy recieved the email and was not impressed at all.he had a go at me for being an idiot and how i ignore him.well i didnt realise that i had been but thinking about it maybe i had been. he also mentioned how i take advantage of him and how i talk about my lovelife too much.im not treating him as one of me friends and i feel awful because ive had to spread my time out as i have many friends. how do i go about talking to him and making it up to him?im really sorry about how things panned out becuase he was there for me when i broke with the love of my life and i seem to use him.i really dont mean to but its how its happened. any help? uongy Link to post Share on other sites
Stone Posted May 3, 2004 Share Posted May 3, 2004 It's hard to juggle different friends, I am a friendly person to and often lose alot of good friends because I don't have time to juggle either. 1st I would never label your friends as "best" or whatever, each one is difrent and you care about them for different reasons. 2nd I make a point to call everyone at least once a month, and chit chat and talk about them. 3rd I can understand why your guy friend is hurt, he dose not feel important to you, do something to let hime know he is a special friend in your life and tell him how much his friendship means to you. " Hallmark say's it best!" 4th realize how lucky you are to have so many people care about you!!! Ma-by you can have a Saturday night party and invite all your friends so they can all meet eachother!! I try to include all of my friends in whatever social activities I have planned then you can get it all over with in one shot, and your friends might be a great friend to one another Good Luck Heahter Link to post Share on other sites
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