What do you think about this..

[awca22]

Hi I would like you people advice me on if its ok on dating a girl after this story:

 

 

I had a crush with lets say "Alex" she was a really smart-pretty girl on high school, In our sophomore year I was attracted and got a crush on her. Since that day I started talking with her everyday and a year later when we were at out senior year, I was her bestfriend but had always wanted to be her boyfriend, when I was going to ask her for a date I told a friend o her and mine that I was going to but she said she had already a boyfriend, so I just got depressed but we still had a great relationship, best friend one.

 

When we got into college together I was so happy we were together and we actually looked like a couple, always together very sweet and all of our friends thought we were dating.

 

OCTOBER-2010

At the middle of the semester, we had a friend in common, actually he was my "bestfriend" lets call him J. At the middle of the semester I finally asked her to be my girlfriend, and I told her that I really love her but somehow she was afraid of letting me go because all of her past boyfriends ended the same way. So I got really depressed but continued to be cute-nice-sweet with her. I talked about how I felt with her with my "bestfriend" J and he gave me advices. I told her I LOVE YOU one night and she answered me back I assume she was my girlfriend because Iasked her and she says yes!

 

A week later I found the 2 of them kissing on a bench And I just told him he was a the worst and to her I guess I said her you're just a bitch! She told me that it was my fault I was always sad and depressed and she didnt want to me to be like this anymore so she started dating her. Our friendship just broke here.

 

OCT-JAN

In the next 3 months I got really depressed and was actually dying to know anything about her, because I erased her from my msn and facebook, our only link was a close friend from us that told me stuff about her how she was doing etc, this was the worst 3 months I had! I missed her so so much!

Since day 2 of what happened I forgived her and thats why I was very sad.

 

JAN

One day I remembered that I knew her msn password and got inside and changed her password because I didnt know how to get her attention again so then minutes later I had her sister as a friend in facebook so she started telling me "A, my sister is dying because she havent talked to you in months and she wants your help getting her msn passsword" So i knew she was and I added her on msn again so we started talking again. Things got reallly better.

 

Jan-May

Before the semester started we were going to a friends party and we were going to see each other, when I saw her I hugged her like..... sighs...!

We started again gaining confidence in each other and fixing all of our mistakes but everytime I saw her with J at college it got me really pissed, and we always argue because of that. So one day she told me she will never talk to him again and she did!

 

Later on the next months we talk about what happened and I told her I had forgiven her such a long time ago but my pride didnt let me talk to her again! So she told me she broke up with that guy instantly when I saw them and never talk to him in those 3 months, we fixed everything up !

 

May - June

When we were back as bestfriends again I said to Alex that I loved her with all my heart till death, she just got to cry and told me that she really loves me but shes afraid that later when she sees me again she wont say it (At this time we only speak of this by phone) so I got sad but I got many hopes because I had always been in love with her!

 

And on June 13 we first kissed each other after everything happened, Our relationship is really great! The only thing that changes is the kissing-hugging-cuddling part, Its perfect to me! I love her till death and she loves me the same!

The only problem is that her friends and cousins( btw which I dont really know ) doesnt accept me as her boyfriend, her cousins is consistently looking for a guy for her, and that makes me really sad! The problem is that I cant get to ask permission to her familys house because they are somehow strict.

 

Hehehehe sorry if this is too long , but I would like you to tell me If its correct to have a relationship after all that happened and what can I do to face her friends and cousins so they can accept me and stop telling her stuff about me.

[Lucky_One]

Is it "correct" to have relationship with her? I don't have any idea what you mean by correct.

 

But I definitely think it is fishy that she is in college and she can't ask you to her house to meet her family because her family is "somehow strict". If you have been such good friends with her for the past 4 years, then I find it odd that you haven't met her family before now or that they haven't heard your name so many times that you wouldn't have an open door to visit.

 

I am guessing that she doesn't talk to her family about you, because you are not as important to her as she is to you.