love no more

[star]

I am very lucky to have a boyfriend as wonderful as I have. We have been going out for a year and a month and are in total love. We believe we are meant for each other and will spend the rest of our lives together. When we first started going out it seemed as if we were always wanting to be together and when we were you could feel the love we had for one another it was as if nothing could seperate us. In the last few months our relationship has gotten a lot more serious(if you know what I mean)and it seems as if we have lost the feeling we once were able to give one another. We still agree that we are totally in love and that we will be together forever but we miss that so called "puppy love". We fight quite often over very stupid stuff and argue all the time. Us not getting along just started a couple of months ago and we both agree we want to back to the way our relationship used to be when we we could actually feel our love for each other. It is only a ocassions that we act this way now. You may not know what I mean but the best way I can describe it is we miss the "puppy love" we once had. If you know wht I mean and have some advice that would help get our relationship back to the way it used to be please help us. We love each other to much and really want to get over this rough spot in aour relationship. Please help!!!

[Grace]

I am very lucky to have a boyfriend as wonderful as I have. We have been going out for a year and a month and are in total love. We believe we are meant for each other and will spend the rest of our lives together. When we first started going out it seemed as if we were always wanting to be together and when we were you could feel the love we had for one another it was as if nothing could seperate us. In the last few months our relationship has gotten a lot more serious(if you know what I mean)and it seems as if we have lost the feeling we once were able to give one another. We still agree that we are totally in love and that we will be together forever but we miss that so called "puppy love". We fight quite often over very stupid stuff and argue all the time. Us not getting along just started a couple of months ago and we both agree we want to back to the way our relationship used to be when we we could actually feel our love for each other. It is only a ocassions that we act this way now. You may not know what I mean but the best way I can describe it is we miss the "puppy love" we once had. If you know wht I mean and have some advice that would help get our relationship back to the way it used to be please help us. We love each other to much and really want to get over this rough spot in aour relationship. Please help!!!

 

All I can tell you is that in every relationship, that kind of "high" you feel at first does eventually wear off. This means nothing more than your relationship is maturing beyond the lust stage. If you're happy being with him, even through the fights, you probably are in love with him. Maybe set aside some special time just for the two of you every so often, to spend time together alone. And get romantic! Candles, a bubble bath, you get the idea.

 

Good Luck!

 

Grace too.

[Misty]

Trust me when I say that the "puppy love" almost always ends. I thought that it would last with my boyfriend, but it didn't. The newness does usually wear off. But we recognized that we did love each other very much, and we accepted that the newness had worn off, and things would be different. Maybe you could try suprising him with something nice. Maybe like, cook him his favorite food, or sit down and talk with him about how your relationship could improve, and what you both want out of the relationship. Good luck!!