Mrm88 Posted August 24, 2011 Share Posted August 24, 2011 I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now and were actually engaged and planning a wedding up until about 5 months ago. I found out that throughout a majority of the time we have been together that he had been having conversations, and sending and receiving inappropriate pictures with multiple different people. He never did anything physical with any of them up until the same day that he decided to end our relationship. His best friend is actually the one who told me about some of the things he had done behind my back throughout all those years we had been together. It wasn't until I confronted him that he finally confessed to what his friend had told me he had done plus he himself admitted to everything else he had done. I am trying to give him a second chance, we are not engaged again, just dating. He has apologized many times and says he regrets everything he did, it's just so hard to trust him. I never could have imagined that he of all people could have been capable of doing the things he did. Is it possible for us to make things work or is it not worth it to try? I have NEVER cheated on anyone, but now that all this has come out into the open, he has been really jealous about things he never was before, what does that mean? Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted August 24, 2011 Share Posted August 24, 2011 Get rid of him. Why would you take someone back when he has treated you like complete crap? He is only "sorry" because he got caught out. If he hadn't got caught then he would have carried on cheating for ever and ever even after you were married with children. Link to post Share on other sites
sareem81 Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 Sorry to say, but its a rare occurance that these second chances are smooth sailing. Take some time out for yourself and enjoy singledom. Let him see what he f'kd up and lost out on. Link to post Share on other sites
Dalicias Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 IMHO, I don't think it will work out. The reason why he's acting jealous is because he is insecure now. Also, I dealt with a boyfriend sending dirty pictures of himself to other women on the internet, I broke up with him and moved on. Best decision of my life. I found someone who treats me with respect. That's exactly what you need to go do. I know how hard it is to get rid of someone you care about, but if you aren't 100% happy, it's not worth it. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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