janbaz Posted August 24, 2011 Share Posted August 24, 2011 Hi previously I asked, whether I should wish her birthday or not. I didnt wish her birthday. And on the next day she texted me saying Hi and sent me a quotation that "If some one share his problem to you, it does not mean they are incomplete, but that shows their trust on you". (it's long long time she even shared even a single piece of her life thing with me, it does not fit.) I am on NC for 10 days with her. She has made very hard for me to do things. Even to talk to her was very difficult. It was very hard for me to see such behavior. And when I saw I am totally ignored and have no place in her life. I stop thinking about her. And now, when I didnt wish on her birthday she texted me on the next day. I dont know, when I was there near her. She didnt bother. And when she noticed that this guy even didnt bothered about her birthday, and she texted. I guess she want to show me that, its dosnt matter I didnt wished her. But she was expecting. I dont know if she is playing again. I am not good in this game kinda thing. So that's why I adopted silence to save the remaining grace. Link to post Share on other sites
EgoJoe Posted August 24, 2011 Share Posted August 24, 2011 I think you would do well to stay silent. Link to post Share on other sites
Author janbaz Posted August 25, 2011 Author Share Posted August 25, 2011 Thanks EgoJoe. I am amazed she didnt tried to figure out or ask why I am silent for so long. In these days. And she was just expecting for herself. I did a brave thing to not wish her. I am feeling strong. I can remember the days when she used to ignore me to hang out with another guy. And I used to beg her for her attentions. I never got any chance to show her my boldness. But this was the moment that came, and I didnt contacted her on birthday. Luckily in these 10 days, I never show up to her. It's just like, I lost some where in earth. Though we work on same place. Anyhow, I am making myself stronger emotionally. Final words are not exchanged between us for breakup. But not wishing her birthday is a clear sign of no interest in her. And she got it. And acknowledged on the same day that she ddint care. And I also dont care now. Link to post Share on other sites
blakjak Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 For the time being, remain silent. She took you for granted. She needs to understand what it means for you to truly to be out of her life. Harsh but fair. Link to post Share on other sites
Author janbaz Posted August 25, 2011 Author Share Posted August 25, 2011 But some time I feel, if she was waiting for me to wish her. Does it gona make any difference? I liked her very much and I showed to her many times. Many times I go to her. But she always gave me excuses. I dont know with time whether I will remain strong or I will be weak. But yes I will continue NC. Link to post Share on other sites
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