No attention from women, becoming a very angry person.

[udolipixie]

I guess I'm just getting angry about the whole thing.

 

See my "fat man thread" for examples. I am not okay as I am, so I have to change myself.

 

Why don't women ever change themselves? If she's skinny, but dumb as rocks, why doesn't she pick up a book and educate herself? If she's fat, why doesn't she get thin? Why does it always have to be the GUY who has to change?

 

Look back at the post where a guy said he didn't care if the girl he was dating didn't have a job or car.

 

It's because most women want more than looks & most men don't.

[xxoo]

The second one I sat down across from in the library and after a few minutes looked over and asked her how it was going. She said that it was ok but she was kind of ticked because the public bus was late so she was having to wait a while for it to come again. We basically ended up talking about the bus and I told her a few funny stories about me trying to take it (missing it once and running after it, etc.), etc. Somehow it got brought up that I was waiting until I had to go to work and I talked very briefly about my job. She got up and left and told me to have a good day at work and then I asked her what her name was.

 

I guess part of the problem is that I have trouble flirting. For people I don't know very well I am concerned I will come off as a creep or a douchebag. Also, there are some times where I just don't know what I could say in a conversation to flirt while being appropriate. How the heck would I have started flirting in either of those examples, especially the second one?

 

One tip--direct the conversation to be more about her. Talking about the bus--where does she take the bus? Talking about missing it--does she have trouble catching it? Talking about work--How about you? Do you work?

 

People are drawn to people who make them feel interesting

[somedude81]

Look back at the post where a guy said he didn't care if the girl he was dating didn't have a job or car.

 

It's because most women want more than looks & most men don't.

That was me.

 

And I wasn't implying that I just care about looks. A woman's looks is what gets me curious, her personality does all the rest.

 

I'm going to college getting a degree that's going to help me get into a career where I'll make a good amount of money. So whether or not the girl has a job isn't important to me. Of course I'd want her to do something productive with her time.

 

Where she lives is irrelevant because she can just stay with her parents till she moves in with me. That's what women have been doing for thousands of years.

 

Her not having a car also isn't an issue in the early stages of dating as I don't mind picking her up and dropping her off. That's actually what she prefers. I'm just not going to be her taxi, driving her around town while she does errands.

[samspade]

Learn game.

[udolipixie]

That was me.

 

And I wasn't implying that I just care about looks. A woman's looks is what gets me curious, her personality does all the rest.

 

I'm going to college getting a degree that's going to help me get into a career where I'll make a good amount of money. So whether or not the girl has a job isn't important to me. Of course I'd want her to do something productive with her time.

 

Where she lives is irrelevant because she can just stay with her parents till she moves in with me. That's what women have been doing for thousands of years.

 

Her not having a car also isn't an issue in the early stages of dating as I don't mind picking her up and dropping her off. That's actually what she prefers. I'm just not going to be her taxi, driving her around town while she does errands.

 

All that does explain that yes you just looks.

 

Personality is a given for both genders requirements in a partner.

 

I find it quite odd how men complain about women acting like entitled princesses when they actually seek and set standards permitting those types.