Mrm88 Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 I am currently giving my ex-fiance' a second chance after finding out that he had beed doing things (having inappropriate conversations and sending and receiving inappropriate pictures to different people). We started dating in 2006, so had been together for a while. We were seperated for a little over a month and have been back together for about 5 months now. The problem is that my feelings for him are not the same as they were before I found out what he had been doing behind my back. There are good days where I think we can make it work and bad days when I just don't know if it's worth it to try and make it work. Is this feeling normal in these types of situations??? If so, will the numbness of feelings towards him ever wear off....how long should I expect it to take??? He seems more dedicated to me than he ever has been and does everything he can to show that he is not and will not do those things again, it's just so hard to trust him. Will the trust ever come back?? There's no one I personally know well enough who has been in this situation that I can talk to about this! PLEASE HELPP!!! Link to post Share on other sites
sweetypielovely Posted August 25, 2011 Share Posted August 25, 2011 Ive been in that situation before and you will NEVER forget but you will forgive eventually. I never forgot and it always hurt me inside and I never fully trusted him and found myself saying inappropriate things all the time so the relationship ended eventually. I hope you can over come it. Good Luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mrm88 Posted August 26, 2011 Author Share Posted August 26, 2011 Thank you for your reply, I really appreciate it. That's exactly what I'm worried about, never being able to overcome it and leave the past in the past. It feels like every time we have a disagreement, I always seem to throw the past in his face...and I know that's not something I should be doing. Link to post Share on other sites
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