Would you give him another chance

[southerngirl84]

Ok, So I was dating this guy for about a month and then he went out of town for a week he had his cell phone and wasn't a family trip or a work trip just a trip. The week he was gone he never called me and this was weird cause he called me everyday. The week he was gone I gotten mono called and told him i was sick on his voicemail and he didn't even call to check to see how i was feeling.Which really upset me, then he got back into town and he called me like the night he came back, didn't ask how i was feeling or anyhing we hung up and I said if i hang up are you going to call me tomorrow?, since he didn't call me all week, I didn't want to be the one making all the effort in the relationship. He goes "I dont Know," lets just say he never called and i never called him. A month later he calls me and he goes i just need some time away and to think. He wants a me to give him another chance but I don't know. I mean I haven't seen him in a month or so and I am still a little upset that he never called when i was sick to check up on me. If your with someone and they call and tell you they are sick wouldn't you call? I'm confused on what to do part of me says give him another chance another part says don't hes not worth it. What would you do?

[Sarah12385]

well, that happened to me....

 

....but he ended up needing to "think about things" because he was gay and that's the honest to God truth

 

 

~Sarah~

[Velveteel]

He sounds flaky, at best, scummy, at worst. But you don't really know for certain. I'd give it a month. Date him, see if you enjoy each other, see if you have similar ideas about communication, etc., and similar values. But don't go beyond another month or so with him unless he seriously shapes up. You don't want to waste too much time on a bad relationship.

[Twilite Man]

He is not worth it. If he is not going to call you to see how you are doing, you are after the wrong guy. You deserve better. I wish my girl will see that.