dreamingoftigers Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 Just like when a woman emotionally eviscerates a guy on cheats on him to get a few more presents or to boost her ego. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mr.dream merchant Posted August 27, 2011 Author Share Posted August 27, 2011 Update: I have a date with the clingy woman tonight, but things aren't playing out the way we planned lol. She's been an ass and real pissy with me all day because ever since we had sex, I've been short and distant with her. On Thursday night, she wants to call and talk to me for 2 hours (lmfao yeah ok) and I told her I'm busy. Friday night was the same deal, told her I was kicking back with friends and family. Everytime she wants to call me, and I decline, she gets salty with a "...ok." text message. Why do I owe this woman anything? I don't, and I know full well I don't. She knows it to. So because she's being salty and pissy with me, I'm actually going to blow her off for tonight's date. Reasons why: 1. I wanted some pussy tonight, if she's being a bitch that means I won't get it. 2. I'd rather get high and have fun with my friends, and enjoy the rest of my weekend and time to myself instead of sitting next to a pouty pissy woman and trying to babysit her. I already told her I'm not coming out if she's gonna be a bitch, she replied with some more nonsense. After that I didn't reply, and I'm actually trying to set up a date tonight with another woman. O_O. The sick part about all of this is that I enjoy doing this to women, like it's some kind of revenge or payback. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mr.dream merchant Posted August 27, 2011 Author Share Posted August 27, 2011 And why shouldn't I be able to get what I want out of women? Why is it so wrong for me to use my charm, looks, intellect and wit to get what I ultimately seek from them? I'm not lying to them, I'm not misleading them, I'm being honest. I can't be held responsible for a woman trying to attach herself to me. That's not fair lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mr.dream merchant Posted August 27, 2011 Author Share Posted August 27, 2011 It's not that I hate women but when I hear about men being mistreated it really hits me on an emotional level. Misandry just makes me lose all reason. If I hated women I would not be happily married to one. Why even take to heart what these people say? **** the skeptics and naysayers. All they can do is wait behind their monitor for you to reply, if you don't even acknowledge their existence then the problem is solved. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 And why shouldn't I be able to get what I want out of women? Why is it so wrong for me to use my charm, looks, intellect and wit to get what I ultimately seek from them? I'm not lying to them, I'm not misleading them, I'm being honest. I can't be held responsible for a woman trying to attach herself to me. That's not fair lol. Oh, you are being honest? I didn't see that anywhere. Furthermore, you already got what you wanted from them easily enough, what revenge is there to be had? Onward: what is wrong with just taking the spoils is about as wrong as being corrupt and using the same justifications. If you don't want to date, don't date. But don't pretend to be a "Knight in Shining Armour" when you are really a Dork in Tin Foil packing Trojans (we hope.) Why bother pretending to have dates at all? Lame. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 And why shouldn't I be able to get what I want out of women? Why is it so wrong for me to use my charm, looks, intellect and wit to get what I ultimately seek from them? I'm not lying to them, I'm not misleading them, I'm being honest. I can't be held responsible for a woman trying to attach herself to me. That's not fair lol. How in the Hell are you not misleading them? Link to post Share on other sites
OnyxSnowfall Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 My goodness. in conclusion, humans hate. If you happen to be a part of the thing they hate, however generic you are related to it, the best thing you can do is give it no logical reason to hate --- to be kind and or ignore it. I doubt hate can be purged through the internet... it can be stirred to THINK of being purged, but all this negative back and forth and the like is probably not going to stir such a thing. People need to be "shown" where they're irrational --- and even then they may initially resist it. Seeds have to be planted... generally those planting the seeds have to walk in and gently plant it, and usually they get flayed for it. I don't know "why" that is... but people resist things that are in opposition to their beliefs/foundations/"reality"... it takes time for those things to erode and it takes experiences that defy it. Hate is usually rewarded/justified/reinforced by more hate and misunderstandings. And telling someone they are just hateful and foul, for whatever reasons, tends to make them more hateful and foul. It's obvious what is "right" and "wrong", in regards to this thread and... there's really no reason to keep beating it over and over when it's falling on deaf ears, is there? What compels that anyway? Link to post Share on other sites
Author mr.dream merchant Posted August 27, 2011 Author Share Posted August 27, 2011 I'm not. I never told her I wanted a relationship. She just started smothering me, and I hate that. So I did what I always do, with the last girl, the girl before her, the girl that lied about bein pregnant, etc...I get cold and distant for a couple days...until my libido kicks in and then I'm back to doing what I do, charming them. I'm not being a liar, nor am I deceiving them. Link to post Share on other sites
Spices Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 It sounds like the women you date just put out too fast. Some women just don't know their own self worth. How would you react to a women who wouldn't put out right away & didn't cling to you? Would you eventually get bored that you're not getting and & move on? I'm highly selective with who I sleep with. I've only ever slept with one person, (I was highly attracted to him, amazing chemistry, ect) and that still took 3 months. I'm very picky & it's rare that I find myself interested in committing to anyone. I've noticed that this seems to drive guys crazy & makes them try harder. Men who would be considered "players" begin to ask for commitment, and think they're in love, ect. I guess it's just human nature. People always seem to want what they can't have. Then when it's in abundance they start to take it for granted. Link to post Share on other sites
Disenchantedly Yours Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 Maybe because I have experienced it from the female end I tend to have a stronger reaction but I do know that nobody should treat anybody like that. Excellent. You're aware of your issue. Knowing this, perhaps you can make more of an effort to be fairer to women. If you do, I'm sure a nice woman will come your way. Link to post Share on other sites
OnyxSnowfall Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 I'm not. I never told her I wanted a relationship. She just started smothering me, and I hate that. So I did what I always do, with the last girl, the girl before her, the girl that lied about bein pregnant, etc...I get cold and distant for a couple days...until my libido kicks in and then I'm back to doing what I do, charming them. I'm not being a liar, nor am I deceiving them. Until you inform her you are not interested in a relationship and that you are only interested in casual sex, she is being misled. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 And why shouldn't I be able to get what I want out of women? Why is it so wrong for me to use my charm, looks, intellect and wit to get what I ultimately seek from them? I'm not lying to them, I'm not misleading them, I'm being honest. I can't be held responsible for a woman trying to attach herself to me. That's not fair lol. What's not fair is that your; "charm, looks, intellect and wit" are wasted on you. You have the ability to make every woman you interact with better off than when she was before. Obviously you don't care about that. All you want to do is take, not caring how you affect other people. Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 Excellent. You're aware of your issue. Knowing this, perhaps you can make more of an effort to be fairer to women. If you do, I'm sure a nice woman will come your way. I am happily married and I generally don't hate women. I just have knee jerk reaction to misandry and I doubt it will ever change. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mr.dream merchant Posted August 27, 2011 Author Share Posted August 27, 2011 It sounds like the women you date just put out too fast. Some women just don't know their own self worth. How would you react to a women who wouldn't put out right away & didn't cling to you? Would you eventually get bored that you're not getting and & move on? I'm highly selective with who I sleep with. I've only ever slept with one person, (I was highly attracted to him, amazing chemistry, ect) and that still took 3 months. I'm very picky & it's rare that I find myself interested in committing to anyone. I've noticed that this seems to drive guys crazy & makes them try harder. Men who would be considered "players" begin to ask for commitment, and think they're in love, ect. I guess it's just human nature. People always seem to want what they can't have. Then when it's in abundance they start to take it for granted. I actually end up pursuing and trying to maintain a stable relationship with women who don't put out too fast. Granted I'm ****ing other women while I'm talking to her, lol, I actually put in more effort and stick around. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 Until you inform her you are not interested in a relationship and that you are only interested in casual sex, she is being misled. This ^^^^ By the way, pretty common social practice. They won't "smother" you if they know that. The reason you don't say it is because you know that they won't put out unless you give that impression. That's why you choose women that overattach. They'll toss you sex under the impression that they are building a relationship before they wise up to the fact that you'll never give them one. That's called using. And it suggests you lack basic empathy because you believe that they are trying to manipulate you the way you manipulate them. Link to post Share on other sites
Disenchantedly Yours Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 He knows he is misleading them OnyzSnowFall. Otherwise, he wouldn't post this post to begin with. And he simply can't be that dumb. He is just desperately clinging to lack of accountability because lets face it, he doesn't know how to be a good man. That's just the reality. He only knows how to be a spoiled, self-indulgent boy. And I suspect that this is what is really going to bring him more heart ache then anything else. He'll get his. Just not with these poor girls. But men like him end up being 40 and even more bitter and hateful of women. They don't end up happy, in-love with beautiful families. Something like this just festers inside of someone. And he is stewing in his own batter of filth right now. I don't forsee this ending well. It's an age old story.... that is if any of his comments are even true....he lives at home with mom and dad. Not. A. Panty. Dropper. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mr.dream merchant Posted August 27, 2011 Author Share Posted August 27, 2011 Until you inform her you are not interested in a relationship and that you are only interested in casual sex, she is being misled. She's misleading herself. It doesn't even matter. I'm blowing this chick off tonight. Seeing what's up with my other prospects for the night. Peace LS. Link to post Share on other sites
Disenchantedly Yours Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 Yada yada yada.."i'm such a stud...but I live at home with mom and dad.." Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 I am happily married and I generally don't hate women. I just have knee jerk reaction to misandry and I doubt it will ever change. Change requires choice first. But in your case, I think it is a way for you to keep that instinct sharp so that you don't become vulnerable again. When you work on trusting yourself enough to read the signs of female usership etc. You won't need the knee-jerk reaction that kicks back to the whole gender. The only way I ever could reconcile that not all men follow cheating and using pattern was to read the feelings and experiences on men on LS. Yours was one of those stories. *cue cheesy music* Link to post Share on other sites
torn_curtain Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 It's not that I hate women but when I hear about men being mistreated it really hits me on an emotional level. Misandry just makes me lose all reason. If I hated women I would not be happily married to one. You do hate women, Woggle. It's obvious. You can only ever get over that if you admit it to yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 Change requires choice first. But in your case, I think it is a way for you to keep that instinct sharp so that you don't become vulnerable again. When you work on trusting yourself enough to read the signs of female usership etc. You won't need the knee-jerk reaction that kicks back to the whole gender. The only way I ever could reconcile that not all men follow cheating and using pattern was to read the feelings and experiences on men on LS. Yours was one of those stories. *cue cheesy music* I am glad I inspired you. At our cores men and women are not so different. We both hurt the same when we are betrayed and lied to. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 She's misleading herself. It doesn't even matter. I'm blowing this chick off tonight. Seeing what's up with my other prospects for the night. Peace LS. I hear that the Palmer sisters are back from vacation. It sucks when your justifications get ripped to shreds, right? Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 You do hate women, Woggle. It's obvious. You can only ever get over that if you admit it to yourself. I might mistrust women and have some resentment but I don't hate them. I would never wish any harm on a woman or wish women to be treated as second class citizens. Link to post Share on other sites
torn_curtain Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 I actually end up pursuing and trying to maintain a stable relationship with women who don't put out too fast. Granted I'm ****ing other women while I'm talking to her, lol, I actually put in more effort and stick around. Why do you find this funny? You do realize that your behavior is nothing to be proud of, right? It makes you look like a pathetic, empty person. Not somebody anyone would choose to be or be envious of. Link to post Share on other sites
torn_curtain Posted August 27, 2011 Share Posted August 27, 2011 I might mistrust women and have some resentment but I don't hate them. I would never wish any harm on a woman or wish women to be treated as second class citizens. You don't think you'd get some small amount of satisfaction when you saw a woman being mistreated in the way you were? Be honest. I think you should watch the movie "In the Company of Men." Link to post Share on other sites
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