no end for the pain in site

[quest_for_truth]

Me and my girl were together for 8 months and we had our normal realationship stress.........she became hot and cold with me always seeming to hide something.....I'm not a jealous person but this made me trip a bit......the more i talked to her about it the more she hid it from me and the broke up with me in the end.........

 

We still talk and i try to talk about what went wrong and if we want to try to fix it but she never wants to talk about any of it and just kind of wants to float through this being single but still having me around................i hate her for the way she makes me feel............she said forever and soulmates.....doesn't that mean it's worth fixing?

[Lonelystar]

You can try and work things out, but remember she may be using you. I think it is selfish for her to have you around, and not be with you. I think you may want to think things over, and try to get involved in other things to avoid thinking about her. Don't call her for a couple of days and see how that works out, but if you think she is your soulmate I guess it is worth the fight. Goocluck.

[quest_for_truth]

she has alot of issues with control and she's a flurt and an attention whore............but other than that she's great!!!lol

[Lonelystar]

Haha sounds like a real catch

[winterwonderland]

Why would you even want to be with someone who is controlling.....flirts with others and whatever the last thing you said?

 

I do know if someone controls you ....you personally lost self worth......and I also know what it feels like when someone flirts with others......it make you feel really small.....so why do you want to put yourself through this pain?