bofferman Posted August 28, 2011 Share Posted August 28, 2011 so my ex invites me out to a club in town that i was going to go to anyway because some mutual friends of ours were there and tells me to hurry up.. breadcrumbs i know..the whole story is right here http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t293958/.. So i go and when i get there she is with some guy that she just met.. does not give me the time of day. and i act cool didnt start a fight or cause a scene. she keeps hanging out with this guy right around us..i can tell she wants me to watch but im cool . i come and go the whole night.... the best part is that her best friend who i gave a ride home to was there to witness all of it.. anyway at the end of the night before i leave... i tell her thanks for inviting me i had a great night. i asked who her friend was and i shook his hand and said nice to meet you.. she was soooo drunk she may not remember. but in some weird way i was upset but it also gave me closure.. did i handle this right ... i hope so... i wanted to do the exact opposite of what my extincts wanted me to do... any help Link to post Share on other sites
Buttercup84 Posted August 28, 2011 Share Posted August 28, 2011 so my ex invites me out to a club in town that i was going to go to anyway because some mutual friends of ours were there and tells me to hurry up.. breadcrumbs i know..the whole story is right here http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t293958/.. So i go and when i get there she is with some guy that she just met.. does not give me the time of day. and i act cool didnt start a fight or cause a scene. she keeps hanging out with this guy right around us..i can tell she wants me to watch but im cool . i come and go the whole night.... the best part is that her best friend who i gave a ride home to was there to witness all of it.. anyway at the end of the night before i leave... i tell her thanks for inviting me i had a great night. i asked who her friend was and i shook his hand and said nice to meet you.. she was soooo drunk she may not remember. but in some weird way i was upset but it also gave me closure.. did i handle this right ... i hope so... i wanted to do the exact opposite of what my extincts wanted me to do... any help I think you handled it really well.You looked classy and she looked like trash.Being drunk and with some random guy. Keep up NC and do not waste your energy on her. Link to post Share on other sites
Nohbody Posted August 28, 2011 Share Posted August 28, 2011 nicely done Link to post Share on other sites
ScienceGal Posted August 28, 2011 Share Posted August 28, 2011 you did well. nice touch shaking his hand too, that shows you're a decent and confident guy. Link to post Share on other sites
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