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i feel like im going to be sick. for the first two or three weeks of this whole thing, i threw up every morning bc i was so upset. i feel like that again right now. my apetite has suddenly gone away, i cant sleep and i feel like major crap. i think this whole process is starting over again and im not going to be able to go thru this again. there is no way i can do it over. what do i do? im so messed up right now. ive compleltey lost it. im on the verge of a serious breakdown... help.

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i feel like im going to be sick. for the first two or three weeks of this whole thing, i threw up every morning bc i was so upset. i feel like that again right now. my apetite has suddenly gone away, i cant sleep and i feel like major crap. i think this whole process is starting over again and im not going to be able to go thru this again. there is no way i can do it over. what do i do? im so messed up right now. ive compleltey lost it. im on the verge of a serious breakdown... help.

 

 

So what happened to cause this set back?

 

How old are you and the ex, John?

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So what happened to cause this set back?

 

How old are you and the ex, John?

 

im 24 and she 22. baisaclly i knida knew she was talking to this guy right after we broke up. i assumed they were dating but i didnt know for sure. my friend told me tonight that she is in fact dating this guy and it just hurts a lot. i seriously feel worse than day one. i feel like im starting this entire "getting over her" process again. im having major panic attacks and cant sleep or eat right now. right now is the worst i have ever felt in my entire life.

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im 24 and she 22. baisaclly i knida knew she was talking to this guy right after we broke up. i assumed they were dating but i didnt know for sure. my friend told me tonight that she is in fact dating this guy and it just hurts a lot. i seriously feel worse than day one. i feel like im starting this entire "getting over her" process again. im having major panic attacks and cant sleep or eat right now. right now is the worst i have ever felt in my entire life.

 

 

I am so sorry. I think you should talk to a doctor about your panic attacks etc. I went through them too and went to my doctor and so glad I did.He gave me anti depressants and sleeping tablets. While they do not make the pain go away, they make you a bit more stable. I would talk to someone too.No shame in it.

 

 

I do not know if my ex is dating anyone , if I did I would feel the same as you. Ask your friends not to tell you anything more , and please please do not facebook her or ask about her.This is about your healing ok ? it is going to be so so hard but you will be ok. I at first did not eat for weeks and had break downs. I couldn't go on the train alone as I had panic attacks. I wanted to die and walked into the emergency room at night because I was so bad. I had a crisis team come to my house because my doctor was so worried.

 

But now I am not over him , but I am eating , I can laugh and while I miss him and still feel so hurt , I know I will be Ok.You will too.x

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I am so sorry. I think you should talk to a doctor about your panic attacks etc. I went through them too and went to my doctor and so glad I did.He gave me anti depressants and sleeping tablets. While they do not make the pain go away, they make you a bit more stable. I would talk to someone too.No shame in it.

 

 

I do not know if my ex is dating anyone , if I did I would feel the same as you. Ask your friends not to tell you anything more , and please please do not facebook her or ask about her.This is about your healing ok ? it is going to be so so hard but you will be ok. I at first did not eat for weeks and had break downs. I couldn't go on the train alone as I had panic attacks. I wanted to die and walked into the emergency room at night because I was so bad. I had a crisis team come to my house because my doctor was so worried.

 

But now I am not over him , but I am eating , I can laugh and while I miss him and still feel so hurt , I know I will be Ok.You will too.x

 

i saw my doctor today and got some anti depressants. i wish i didnt know about her and him. i knew they were talking but not officially dating. makes it so hard to move on now. its consuming my thoughts and driving me nuts. i feel like im going to die right now. i feel so alone and afraid.

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