LoveSickGuy911 Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 I am literally sick to my stomach I can't function at all. Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedT Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 im sick to my stomach today too. im functioning and i ate, but i remember being SO SICK to my stomach that i couldn't eat. could barely function at work, could barely focus. that was like hmmm a month or so ago. i started being OK about 2.5-3 weeks ago, well OK is a relative term, but ok enough to eat and function. i started NC multiple times, but have been strong for 2 weeks and he has only called once but i havent returned his call! stay strong! we're here for you! Link to post Share on other sites
ScienceGal Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 i started NC multiple times, but have been strong for 2 weeks and he has only called once but i havent returned his call! stay strong! we're here for you! AWESOME! So proud of you for not calling back. Keep it up!!! I have said it many times before, and will say it many times again... this "sickness" is showing your capacity to love and that is a GOOD thing! Just think of how wonderful it will be when you meet someone that has a heart as loving as yours Take whatever small moments of peace you get and know that they will happen more and more frequently. Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedT Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 Thanks Science. I actually saw the call and declined it. Who knows why he did- does it matter? it definitely wasnt to apologize because last time i checked, he knew how to text. his girlfriend also called me! =) that was nice... this sickness is terrible, but everything gets better, its just the duration of time you are going through it that is so terrible!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Dblock10 Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 i should take pride in the fact that for now they havent contacted me. maybe its for the best. i can understand how it would set you back. the "what did they want" would kill me.. Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedT Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 i should take pride in the fact that for now they havent contacted me. maybe its for the best. i can understand how it would set you back. the "what did they want" would kill me.. i just know it obviously wasnt for anything good, because if it was, he would have called me more than once. & for his girlfriend- there's only one reason she would call- to see if he was with me. No honey, I will never be the other woman- EVER. its better if they dont!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Dblock10 Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 i just know it obviously wasnt for anything good, because if it was, he would have called me more than once. & for his girlfriend- there's only one reason she would call- to see if he was with me. No honey, I will never be the other woman- EVER. its better if they dont!!!!! awesome! power to you i say. and the good thing is you know it! yeah well for me, slightly different break up. her travelling.. wanting to be free.. etc. etc. so there shouldnt be a reason i dont hear from her again. but what do you know.. complete silence ! Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedT Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 if she doesn't want to be there though, you gotta let her go. i think this saying ONLY applies in situations where people where actually good intentioned while doing the break-up (not in cheating, lying, betraying, etc..) but if you set her free & she comes back, she was always yours!! if not, she never was and you have the chance to find the one who is!! NOT applicable in my situation. He let me go, but even if he moved the mountains and sea, i couldnt return to that toxic relationship... it would devour me again!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author LoveSickGuy911 Posted August 30, 2011 Author Share Posted August 30, 2011 My feelings just get worse throughout the day.... my stomach is in complete knots. The only thing that can cure it is the touch of my ex. Link to post Share on other sites
Diatribes Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 My feelings just get worse throughout the day.... my stomach is in complete knots. The only thing that can cure it is the touch of my ex. This may not be good advise, but I was/am feeling very similar. The way I make this sh*t go away is to drink quantities of Vodka. It completely takes her off my mind, and I have a dreamless sleep. Best of luck to you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LoveSickGuy911 Posted August 30, 2011 Author Share Posted August 30, 2011 This may not be good advise, but I was/am feeling very similar. The way I make this sh*t go away is to drink quantities of Vodka. It completely takes her off my mind, and I have a dreamless sleep. Best of luck to you. I did that last night... went to a local pub and talked for the bartender for a few hours. I'm thinking about doing it again tonight. Link to post Share on other sites
Diatribes Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 I did that last night... went to a local pub and talked for the bartender for a few hours. I'm thinking about doing it again tonight. I'd be careful of doing that daily. Can turn into an unhealthy addiction real fast. I limit myself to every other night at the most. And try not to consume too much. Not only is this bad on your body it kills brain cells. I feel slightly hypocritical though. I drank a whole liter last night, and I'm having a cocktail right now. Best of luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LoveSickGuy911 Posted August 30, 2011 Author Share Posted August 30, 2011 I'd be careful of doing that daily. Can turn into an unhealthy addiction real fast. I limit myself to every other night at the most. And try not to consume too much. Not only is this bad on your body it kills brain cells. I feel slightly hypocritical though. I drank a whole liter last night, and I'm having a cocktail right now. Best of luck. At this point, I kind of hope to become an alcoholic. Don't really care if it kills brain cells or kills my body either. I just generally don't care. Link to post Share on other sites
Diatribes Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 At this point, I kind of hope to become an alcoholic. Don't really care if it kills brain cells or kills my body either. I just generally don't care. Dealing with alcohol dependency is just going to compound your problems even further, and you will regret it down the line. While I tend to over do it myself sometimes, I try to keep it in check by limiting how often I drink too much. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LoveSickGuy911 Posted August 30, 2011 Author Share Posted August 30, 2011 Dealing with alcohol dependency is just going to compound your problems even further, and you will regret it down the line. While I tend to over do it myself sometimes, I try to keep it in check by limiting how often I drink too much. Regret? I think I'm about maxed out with regret. I made the worst mistake in my life and didn't realize it until 6 months later. I don't even think it's possible to regret much more. Link to post Share on other sites
Diatribes Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 Regret? I think I'm about maxed out with regret. I made the worst mistake in my life and didn't realize it until 6 months later. I don't even think it's possible to regret much more. Sh*t can always get worse, trust me. * from experience Link to post Share on other sites
Eddie Edirol Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 Regret? I think I'm about maxed out with regret. I made the worst mistake in my life and didn't realize it until 6 months later. I don't even think it's possible to regret much more. I got four things for you: House MD Six Feet Under Rescue Me 30 Rock Buy all of the seasons these shows and watch them straight through. They will help distract you and keep you occupied. just make sure you FF>> past the theme music, or you wont be able to listen to the music for at least a year. The bartender will get sick of you venting after a while. BTW youre not venting enough, type out what youre feeling. Dont worry about anyone reading it, just get it out, should enlighten you. Link to post Share on other sites
Dblock10 Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 if she doesn't want to be there though, you gotta let her go. i think this saying ONLY applies in situations where people where actually good intentioned while doing the break-up (not in cheating, lying, betraying, etc..) but if you set her free & she comes back, she was always yours!! if not, she never was and you have the chance to find the one who is!! NOT applicable in my situation. He let me go, but even if he moved the mountains and sea, i couldnt return to that toxic relationship... it would devour me again!!! yeah and i did. with grace and dignity. a true gent i am hey. its funny you say that quote. its what she said when we had the final "talk" when i went to go see her. she said i think this applies to this situation. but yeah if she meant wanting to keep each other updated with our lives etc then why have i not heard from her in 3 weeks doesnt make me feel good. yeah if you know its toxic. stay out! Link to post Share on other sites
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