dreamingoftigers Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 How long have you two been together Daisy? Link to post Share on other sites
Saul Goodman Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 I can see why you are so popular daisy... Link to post Share on other sites
Summer Breeze Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 I'm going to say something that may well get me banned. Daisy I hope you guys get together. I hope your egotistical and selfcentered existence keeps going. I hope you keep looking down your nose at everyone else and I hope you fall even more hopelessly in love with them. Then I hope he cheats on you and preferably with his wife. Why do I say that? Because you are one of those people who is either so ignorant you don't believe someone could hurt someone as perfect as you are and the only way you will believe your perfect little bubble can't be burst and the only way I see it happening is to have him burst in grand style. I haven't quite figured out if you actually believe everything you're writing of if you're one of those annoying people on facebook that updates statuses saying how perfect everything is and uses the platform to big themselves up because they know there's no real substance in their life. I'm so blessed he has a big d++k and we're going to Hawaii, he loves me and I can't wait to get him back from LA where he's saving his fortune so we can share it. Yada yada yada Daisy. Sadly with people like that we all have private smile when the bubble bursts. Grow up and look at the world realistically. If he loves you grasp it and work on it. Don't be blinded by it and think it's forever just because it's there now. Stop doing your best in here to make people hate you. We'll be the ones waiting with patience and kind words when something serious happens. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 I said worse once, didn't even get an infraction. There is something really naively bitter about the whole scenario. How could someone think that their love is "just that special" with someone so obviously callous to those that he is supposed to love. Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 Well, just like somebody posted earilier: Daisy! Soon, "breakup" sex will be "sex with the ex"! That is, if you're lucky enough to have all your dreams come true, and he does get a divorce. Otherwise, he'll just keep on having sex with his actual wife, AND with you too, until he's tired of you. It's super cute the way you reward your loverman for having sex with somebody else by donning your thigh high stockings and stilettos and cooking him his favorite TV dinner! Nothing like some positive reinforcement to let him know that it's all just hunky dory with you. Link to post Share on other sites
Spark1111 Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 That must have been really humiliating for you. Your H sounds like a jerk. Hey, maybe he went back and told his OW he took one for the team! Who knows? Link to post Share on other sites
Snowflower Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 He said he only did it because she wanted it and he thought she'd be more cooperative about stuff if he did her. He said he didn't enjoy it, it was like shagging a cold fish. He reassured me that everything is ok. He still loves me and wants to be with me forever. I am sad, but I am trying real hard not to let it show. You know, if a BW had come to LS and said that her husband had screwed another woman only because she (the OW) wanted it...wow, would that BW who was posting here ever be set straight! After all, she is told that her husband, the MM, always does all the pursuing! You are now a partner who has been cheated on. Perhaps you should go to the Infidelity forum instead because you are just like all those BW who you like to scorn here. As for your feeling sad and not being able to show that...I find that sad for you. I know that my being a BW will likely mean that my post will be disregarded. However, I do understand how you are feeling now. I hope you will consider your own feelings and needs in all this. Link to post Share on other sites
Author daisy love Posted September 1, 2011 Author Share Posted September 1, 2011 From the outside looking in: he likes how you have handled it, his respect is not present. Hi guys. I am at work and so I can only post during my breaks or I could get written up. Dreaming of Tigers, This is the most helpful post in this thread. I wanted you to know I have really been thinking about this. See I figured since we was married to her and not to me, I couldn't expect him to be faithful to me until we are married. Your post made me look at it differently and I see he has been very disrespectful to me. I am going to have a long talk with him this weekend. Thank you for your post! Link to post Share on other sites
Author daisy love Posted September 1, 2011 Author Share Posted September 1, 2011 I'm going to say something that may well get me banned. Daisy I hope you guys get together. I hope your egotistical and selfcentered existence keeps going. I hope you keep looking down your nose at everyone else and I hope you fall even more hopelessly in love with them. Then I hope he cheats on you and preferably with his wife. Why do I say that? Because you are one of those people who is either so ignorant you don't believe someone could hurt someone as perfect as you are and the only way you will believe your perfect little bubble can't be burst and the only way I see it happening is to have him burst in grand style. I haven't quite figured out if you actually believe everything you're writing of if you're one of those annoying people on facebook that updates statuses saying how perfect everything is and uses the platform to big themselves up because they know there's no real substance in their life. I'm so blessed he has a big d++k and we're going to Hawaii, he loves me and I can't wait to get him back from LA where he's saving his fortune so we can share it. Yada yada yada Daisy. Sadly with people like that we all have private smile when the bubble bursts. Grow up and look at the world realistically. If he loves you grasp it and work on it. Don't be blinded by it and think it's forever just because it's there now. Stop doing your best in here to make people hate you. We'll be the ones waiting with patience and kind words when something serious happens. This is mean and hurtful and not helpful at all! How can you hate a person you don't even know? If you hate me so much, stop posting to me! Link to post Share on other sites
Owl Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 I think I'm just gonna sit back and see what's posted by Daisy on December 26th. It'll be interesting to see if she posts that her man spent Christmas with her, or with the (then) ex-wife and family. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 You guys know that my lover has been having trouble with wife over the settlement. My lover went to LA to try to smooth things over with the wife. He came home to me. I ran into his arms, and we made passionate love like we always do. I didn't want to pry about how things went, cuz you guys told me to back off. The curiosity got me, so wwhen we were in the kitchen making a post lovemaking snack, I made a joke about how much he must have missed me. Because the sex was soooo great! He told me that at first, she was aloof whatever that means. Then guess what? He went to her place that was their place before. They drank some wine and talked about old times. I was totally down wit that, but then.......... he said they had BREAKUP SEX!!!! He said he only did it because she wanted it and he thought she'd be more cooperative about stuff if he did her. He said he didn't enjoy it, it was like shagging a cold fish. He reassured me that everything is ok. He still loves me and wants to be with me forever. I am sad, but I am trying real hard not to let it show. If you guys are gonna tell me to just tell my lover to beat it, forget about it! I want to know how to let this go and if I should worry. I told him I wanted to go to LA with him next time because I don't want him near her anymore! OWs out there! Pls help me! Is this a normal part of the divorce process? I'm sorry to say I've been divorced twice and never once did I have a desire to sleep with either of them during or after the process. I was on good terms with both of them and yes they both wanted sex but it was to stop the divorce process. Having sex with the soon to be ex spouse will not make divorce proceedings any smoother. The only reason your lover had sex with his wife was because he wanted to. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 So, was the idea that the sexual experience with him would be so god-awful that the wife would run to sign the divorce settlement agreement, just to make sure she'd never have to endure it again? :lmao::lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
summerdowling87 Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 So teel us Dasiy what will he have to do to you where you'd say you had enough.? Also you'll make a good wife you should be thinking by his actions how he will make a good husband. It takes to for a marriage/relationship to work. Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted September 2, 2011 Share Posted September 2, 2011 Well, Daisy WILL make this man a good wife. One thing we know for sure about him: he requires a woman who will accept him doing the dirty deed with other ladies, and Daisy has let him know that this is fine with her. A match made in heaven. I wonder who's next on his list? Link to post Share on other sites
TurboGirl Posted September 2, 2011 Share Posted September 2, 2011 Well, I think that Daisy has lowered her standard and does not even realize it...she wants this MM in her life soooo badly, for whatever reason. A's do that... slowly and surely erode at what your standard used to be, and can take it to a new low. Striving to pelase a MM... who is still M to someone else. Daisy has not indicated if she is in her 20s or 30s, etc... but I suspect that she is pretty young and perhaps comes here for a little support. Not evil or crazy... just inexperienced. Time will tell, Daisy. I hope that you take our comments and really consider them. Keep your eyes open... and I hope that you do have that "talk" with your MM this weekend. "Break up sex" is absolute BS. Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted September 2, 2011 Share Posted September 2, 2011 I'm going to say something that may well get me banned. Daisy I hope you guys get together. I hope your egotistical and selfcentered existence keeps going. I hope you keep looking down your nose at everyone else and I hope you fall even more hopelessly in love with them. Then I hope he cheats on you and preferably with his wife. Why do I say that? Because you are one of those people who is either so ignorant you don't believe someone could hurt someone as perfect as you are and the only way you will believe your perfect little bubble can't be burst and the only way I see it happening is to have him burst in grand style. I haven't quite figured out if you actually believe everything you're writing of if you're one of those annoying people on facebook that updates statuses saying how perfect everything is and uses the platform to big themselves up because they know there's no real substance in their life. I'm so blessed he has a big d++k and we're going to Hawaii, he loves me and I can't wait to get him back from LA where he's saving his fortune so we can share it. Yada yada yada Daisy. Sadly with people like that we all have private smile when the bubble bursts. Grow up and look at the world realistically. If he loves you grasp it and work on it. Don't be blinded by it and think it's forever just because it's there now. Stop doing your best in here to make people hate you. We'll be the ones waiting with patience and kind words when something serious happens. That bolded section had me laughing out loud and also rolling my eyes as my bestfriend and I often discuss folks like this particularly those who use social media to portray a ridiculous picture of their lives that is not even very convincing at all. All the stuff about we're going to Hawaii, he has a huge member and the list goes on of these ridiculous things in which they put every aspect of their so-called "happy" relationship online and then inevitably one day they have a status where it all comes crashing down...or you see "Such and such is single"....it is hilarious and pathetic at the same time. Every person I know who behaves like this always comes crashing down to a hard fall and usually has some issues they need to work out versus trying to convince the world that their relationship is so wonderful, hence the need to spend 4 million hours a day discussing it online and updating states versus living it ....when I'm happy in my relationship and just overall busy with life I barely have time to update statuses, further if my relationship is such that I need to make thread after thread on LS dissecting it...needless to say, it's not that terrific and I shouldn't be turning my nose up at folks when I'm the one choosing to be here. So daisy can put on all the thigh highs she pleases and be flippant but it doesn't change the fact that she is forced to take time from her loverman and their grand romance to post here about him and his wife and some new drama. Envious I am not. Link to post Share on other sites
Saul Goodman Posted September 2, 2011 Share Posted September 2, 2011 I think you should end the relationship. Its not healty Even the spam is thinking clearly. Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted September 2, 2011 Share Posted September 2, 2011 Even the spam is thinking clearly. That made me laugh out loud literally Link to post Share on other sites
jthorne Posted September 2, 2011 Share Posted September 2, 2011 those who use social media to portray a ridiculous picture of their lives that is not even very convincing at all. Not even social media. It happens on this very board all the time. In that sense, Daisy's situation is not unique at all. Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted September 2, 2011 Share Posted September 2, 2011 Your post made me look at it differently and I see he has been very disrespectful to me. I am going to have a long talk with him this weekend. Thank you for your post! So happy to hear that, Daisy. Affair aside, no relationship thrives when one person is burying their feelings (sadness, pain) to keep the other happy. And no one respects a doormat. Stand up for yourself, and make certain that he can handle an ASSERTIVE Daisy, who expects to be treated with respect! Link to post Share on other sites
mzdolphin Posted September 2, 2011 Share Posted September 2, 2011 (edited) Having been an OW I must say I've accepted some stupid $hit from the MM, but this is ridiculous. It won't pass my Jerry Springer test; which is: If you and he were on Jerry Springer, telling the audience this same story, how would the audience react? Exactly. You would be called stupid. He would be cursed out and you'd be hoping nobody you knew saw that episode. Edited September 2, 2011 by mzdolphin grammer Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted September 2, 2011 Share Posted September 2, 2011 Even the spam is thinking clearly. Double damn!:lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
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