Wesker Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 So an old friend emails me today. After writing back and forth a bit, she starts to mention that she has a friend possibly to set me up with. I even got a pic of her, and I must say she's pretty hot. The one thing though is that she's only 19(I'm 32). My friend tells me she isn't your typical 19 year, and that she has her **it together. I believe her on that. I guess what I'm really worried about is that if something were to come of this, I may have the GIGS factor to deal with later on. If you've read my previous posts, I was with someone for almost 8 years until 3 months ago(she was 35). The whole dating scene seems so unknown to me now after being with her for so long. But I also know, you have to start somewhere. My friends tell me I should just relax, go for it, and just have fun with it. Nothing's ever certain, and who knows? If sparks fly, they fly. Do big age differences really work that well? Especially that young? Link to post Share on other sites
Diatribes Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 Listen to your friends. If anything, you may get a chance at a romp with a younger girl. I'm 39 and I'd date a 19 year old. I actually hooked up with a hot little 20 year old a few weeks ago. No regrets. Speaking of regret, you might regret not hooking up with this girl. Best of luck. Link to post Share on other sites
lymtal1 Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 I would say that you should have some fun and be aware that the situation does dictate exactly what you mention. It is not an exact science but there are some great posts about this on here and I have just lived the reality of GIGS from a 23 year old. We spent 2.5 years together, made plans for the future and low and behold it did hit about three months ago. I was given the you have experienced things in life that I have not and I don't want to hate you in a year. So, it was a blindside as we were planning a future. I can honestly say that although it was and still is the most difficult break-up I have ever gone through I completely understand where she was coming from. Does not make it any easier. Tread lightly enjoy yourself but go in with your eyes wide open and please don't fall hard. Link to post Share on other sites
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