Was looking at pictures of a club, and saw..

[joshislost]

Pics of my ex doing shots.. she seemed happy really sucks because I did it all for her. I want to contact her, but she's only hurt me in the past. Emotionally and physically. Kind of wish I didn't see it, but I still do miss her. Any advice to get through this? It's happened in the past where I saw her pic, and contacted her and yet we didn't stick together she just reverted back to her old ways. I want to be stronger and say it's not bothering me, but i'd only be lying to myself. Any advice?

 

I have been going to the gym on a consistent basis have lost about 32 pounds since we last dated, and am going to hustle tomorrow and try to go even though my mood is in the dumps.

 

Thanks all

[Nohbody]

Sounds like you are on the right track. It sucks, and it's going to hurt for a long time. Continue to improve yourself in any way you want or need. Start feeling good about you, and you will care less and less about her.

 

Good times come and good times go. That's the way of the world. Her life isn't a continuous party - it's all bull****.

 

Keep on taking care of yourself, and you are going to come out of this fine.

[joshislost]

Sounds like you are on the right track. It sucks, and it's going to hurt for a long time. Continue to improve yourself in any way you want or need. Start feeling good about you, and you will care less and less about her.

 

Good times come and good times go. That's the way of the world. Her life isn't a continuous party - it's all bull****.

 

Keep on taking care of yourself, and you are going to come out of this fine.

 

Thanks for the kind words, means a lot! Thing is that bugs me is she has a kid(not by me) and here she is taking shots while her baby is wherever. I don't know what it is, but something keeps drawing me back to her like a drug, when I see her pic I'm like paralyzed