Pierce85 Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 My girlfriend still has a few pictures of her and her ex-bf together on her facebook profile and saved to her computer. It didn't bug me at first but I guess I felt she would have gotten rid of them by now? They aren't friends at the moment, as a matter of fact she always talks about terrible he was to her. Is this something I should just let go or should I bring it up to her? Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 Hell, I would just let it go. No big deal. She's with you now. Be happy with that. Different story if she printed them up and framed them! Hell, I still have my prom pictures in a box at home. My wife was going through the box and saw them. She wanted to throw them out, but I told her not too. They were of my prom, part of my history. My wife thought I was weird, but she didn't feel threatened by them. Link to post Share on other sites
BeyondtheClouds Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 I asked my boyfriend to detag his name from the photos his ex had on FB. He did. Photos in a box somewhere I'll ignore. (as long as they stay in the box) Link to post Share on other sites
cupcakekk Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 please try to let it go.. this actually happened to me the other night. my boyfriend seemed upset with me because i still had photos of my ex. a five year relationship is hard to get rid of all the pictures! i do not care about my ex ( at least in a way that i used too ) i love my new boyfriend with all my heart and having old pictures doesn't mean anything. and heck at least you know if you guys break up she wont be doing any voodoo stuff to you lol Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 I asked my boyfriend to detag his name from the photos his ex had on FB. He did. Photos in a box somewhere I'll ignore. (as long as they stay in the box) I agree with this. Photos on the PC or in a box at home, fine, as long as they are memories that stay there and are not shoved in your face, no problem. Facebook however, does tend to shove them in your face in the stupid "photo memories" box on the right. Ask her to detag herself or delete them from facebook because they do pop up in your face all on their own. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Pierce85 Posted September 1, 2011 Author Share Posted September 1, 2011 In a box someplace wouldn't bother me as much but I'm kind of bugged they're on facebook out in the open and I know she has at least 1 actual photograph that she keeps stored away in this book she showed me one day. It fell out when she opened it. She just put it back in the book. I don't know if this makes a difference but these pictures aren't of them and a group of friends, it's just them two hugging. Personally I wouldn't think it's appropriate if I had old pictures of me and my ex like that on facebook. I wouldn't feel it would be good for the relationship but that might just be me. Link to post Share on other sites
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