seanhex Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 (edited) My friend who is a longdistance friend and I had an argument. I deleted him from facebook and twitter, then he while we were on skype deleted me from skype. My last words to him was don't ignore me because that is the worse thing you can do. That is when he deleted me from skype. Since then it has been 2 months that i did not contact him, neither did he, until now where he added me to facebook and twitter but not on skype. It took me all day to decide to accept him or not, eventually i said ok but i did not email or send any txt to him. Should i leave it for a few days and see what he will write or that is playing games? Really he needs to apologize, that is how I feel. The way he ended the friendship was very mean and it did upset me for the past 2 months. Additional Details I send him an email saying hope he is fine and doing well. I did not want to apologize because i did plenty before he deleted me from skype. Since august 28th, I have not heard back from him, no emails (he could have send a nice email, just to say hi) , I guess I will wait for him to email me back? But the more days go by, the more i feel he is up to his games and does not give a crap. Also since he deleted me from skype, should i ask to be put back, or wait until he adds me? You may want to read my previous post to hear what happened before all this. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t287094/ Edited August 31, 2011 by seanhex Link to post Share on other sites
spiderowl Posted September 2, 2011 Share Posted September 2, 2011 (edited) It's not a good idea to delete a friend from any of the these sites as it is bound to cause offence. If your friend deleted you from Skype after you said that, it sounds a bit rude. Also, you have sent him a friendly email and he hasn't responded. If two people hurt each other, then they are both likely to be wary about putting themselves in the way of more possible pain. If they want a rapprochement, all they can do is to build bridges in small steps until they can talk (and apologise, if that seems appropriate). It sounds to me like he could have reciprocated by responding to your email, especially as he'd sent you a friends request. You could always try to break the deadlock by apologising in some way but, quite honestly, if it were me I'd have wanted something more positive back from him by now, if only a brief email to ask how I was. Then again, I give up on people really easily these days as I'm fearful of getting hurt. Edit. Actually, having read your original posting now, I'd say forget about him. He's obviously a weird character and you would be better off without him. For some reason, you seem attached to this odd guy. He is playing games, trying to attract your attention only to ignore you and kick you in the teeth. It seems he's been doing this kind of thing before. Look up 'push/pull' techniques on the web and try not to get drawn into his dramas. They will drive you crazy too. Edited September 2, 2011 by spiderowl Link to post Share on other sites
julielove Posted September 13, 2011 Share Posted September 13, 2011 [email protected] Hello My name is hariet,I saw your profile today at and became interested in you,i will also like to know you the more,and i want you to send an email to my email address so i can give you my picture for you to know whom i am and tell you more about myself, here is my email address ( [email protected]) i believe we can move from here. I am waiting. Remember that distance or color does not matter but love matters a lot in life reply me thanks. Yours Hariet Link to post Share on other sites
Paper Roses Posted September 23, 2011 Share Posted September 23, 2011 This guy is nothing but drama. Save yourself the trouble and delete him from your life because he will drag this on for years to come. Trust me, I know from experience. You'll have a wonderful time talking to him, then he'll be a jerk or ignore you completely. He is serving his own ego and using you to do it. Go find some friends who genuinely share the same interests as you do, care about you and treat you with the respect you deserve. Link to post Share on other sites
thatsparklystuff Posted September 23, 2011 Share Posted September 23, 2011 My friend who is a longdistance friend and I had an argument. I deleted him from facebook and twitter, then he while we were on skype deleted me from skype. My last words to him was don't ignore me because that is the worse thing you can do. That is when he deleted me from skype. Since then it has been 2 months that i did not contact him, neither did he, until now where he added me to facebook and twitter but not on skype. It took me all day to decide to accept him or not, eventually i said ok but i did not email or send any txt to him. Should i leave it for a few days and see what he will write or that is playing games? Really he needs to apologize, that is how I feel. The way he ended the friendship was very mean and it did upset me for the past 2 months. Additional Details I send him an email saying hope he is fine and doing well. I did not want to apologize because i did plenty before he deleted me from skype. Since august 28th, I have not heard back from him, no emails (he could have send a nice email, just to say hi) , I guess I will wait for him to email me back? But the more days go by, the more i feel he is up to his games and does not give a crap. Also since he deleted me from skype, should i ask to be put back, or wait until he adds me? You may want to read my previous post to hear what happened before all this. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t287094/ It takes a lot for someone to step up and ask to be friends again, it might be something small. But since you used those sites to disconnect him from your life, the least you could do is meet him half way. In some friendships it's not always about the apologies. It's about the understanding that no matter what happens, that other person (if they're a real friend) will always be there. I say, just add him to SKYPE and then post something on his wall. It doesn't have to be a letter, just a "hey, what's up." would suffice. But stomp this out. Link to post Share on other sites
Eddie Edirol Posted September 23, 2011 Share Posted September 23, 2011 Sean why are you continuing to harass this guy who clearly doesnt want a friendship with you anymore? Link to post Share on other sites
thatsparklystuff Posted September 23, 2011 Share Posted September 23, 2011 Oh wow, I hadn't read the other post in the link. Let it go. NVM Link to post Share on other sites
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