me4u Posted May 6, 2004 Posted May 6, 2004 Hey people! Thanks in advance for all the advice. My story goes like this: I started seeing this lady last summer (in June) when I had gone back home for holidays. We had some good times, and we decided to stay together. In August I had to get back to the country to continue with my studies. I thought everything would work out as I thought. However, in October, things went wayward. She changed soo much toward me. It was as if I didn't know her at all. She had a bad past, and I always helped her to get over it. She was still friends wth her ex, even though he gave her a bad time 'cause they were the best of friends before they started seeing each other. She told me she had completely gotten over him, but he was still in love wth her. In October, she gave me a call and she said that she wanted to break up, as she thought that even though she has gotten over her ex, the fact that she had thought once upon a time that she would get married to him is bugging her. She told me that she never told me that she would get married to me, while she did say (she was the one who started talking about marriage). I told her that I shall wait for her and stuff. However, she was very very rude to me, and told me all the meanest of things that she could say. In spite of that, I was patient, and was waiting for it to become January, as she was supposed to come to the same country where I am. She came, and I spoke to her. She was really hard on her decision. She said that, even though she loves me, she doesn't want to be in any sort of relationship, and that i should move on. She is a very impulsive person. She just says the rudest of things, and she has really hurt me a lot. I thought of all that and decided to move on... Then, out of the blue, she called me up 3 weeks back, and she said that she realizes that she has done the most stupid things in her life, and wants to get back. I have already started moving on, and I kinda don't wanna get back. I told her that, and she got pissed off, and again was rude to me. She was acting as if I ditched her. She still calls me every day. I really don't know what to do. What would you guys have done if you were in the same situation??? Please advise.
hurtingandconfused Posted May 6, 2004 Posted May 6, 2004 Sometimes Rude GF Dumped Me. Should I Now Take Her Back? No
befuddled11 Posted May 6, 2004 Posted May 6, 2004 Ask yourself WHY you'd be considering taking back someone who was consistently rude and hurtful to you....who ended up dumping you. You're not desperate, are you? No? Well, then why would you even waste 5 seconds of your time on this broad? Cut off all contact with her. Don't take her phone calls. She's a nasty person. Let the drama go. Move on with your life. Well..unless you enjoy being treated rudely and dumped.
bluechocolate Posted May 6, 2004 Posted May 6, 2004 I have already started moving on, and I kinda don't wanna get back. You've answered your own question here - no. And stop taking her calls - she'll move on soon enough.
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