Starnette83 Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 Hi, im 21 and ive never felt uglier then now...ugh i dont know whats happeneing but everytime i look at myself i feel and look so ugly, guys dont flirt with me anymore even if i wear skirts and im starting to feel so low...ugh..im breaking out , my hair is super frizzy and im even gaining pudge on my stomach..what the hell??ive always had a low self estteem, shy and insecure but now it just all has doubled..NOTHING in life seems good right now... and i feel full of flaws, if it aint one thing wrong its another..i feel like i have to get surgeryadn even with that i feel hopeless..i dunno whats happenieng..i see other girls and theyre perfect...nice hair n skin, happy and smiley...but here i am..always with a frown, always trying to hide, my hair is allover the place, my skin is red..and i just feel DEAD inside...gosh... whats happening>>???? is it all my stress- self stress that is causing this ****???? Link to post Share on other sites
DerangedAngel Posted May 6, 2004 Share Posted May 6, 2004 can negative thoughts make u ugly? Having low self-esteem, and putting yourself down all the time are unattractive qualities in a person, yes. But I don't think that's what you're asking. Do you mean literally? i see other girls and theyre perfect... So you think. A lot of those girls that you see might cry themselves to sleep at night because they, too, feel ugly. Or fat. I've done so plenty of times. No one can criticize us like we criticize ourselves. is it all my stress- self stress that is causing this What kind of stress have you been under? Are you currently in counseling (I think that may be a good idea)? Are you feeling depressed? Any major changes in your life recently? Please respond soon. I wish you well. -Deranged Link to post Share on other sites
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