Kaileah Posted September 2, 2011 Share Posted September 2, 2011 Hello all, Thank you in advance for your answers. I've been seeing the OH for just over a year - the last six months have been on and off due to both our work commitments, but he did organise a beautiful evening for my birthday and we've had a great week together recently. I was going to bring up the subject of us moving in together when he told me that our relationship wasnt going anywhere do to being busy and wanting different things. (Which we don't, coincidentally). So, I asked him if he wanted things to end, and he said that they don't have to, that he wanted me to wait whilst he sorted his stuff out, but that it would also be unfair on me. I told him that I was willing to work through the good and the bad, that I only wanted him and we could tackle everything else that hits us. He did mention that he was so busy at the moment he didn't have time to nurture a relationship with me. Except, I have discovered that he is sexting a girl, and has asked another girl out on different dating sites (we met on a site). So, essentially, he doesn't want me to go, doesn't have time for me, but can have time for these two women. I intend on bringing up the subject with him tomorrow, to see if there is anything that can be done to make this relationship work. I believe that he's pursuing other people because he needs the stimulation and excitement in some area of his life because he's so unhappy with every other aspect of his life. I also know for a fact he still loves me... but how am I going to work on this, mention that I know about the other girls without him flying off the handle? Is it even worth making an effort to repair? Because sadly, he is the love of my life. And once upon a time, he told me I was his. Link to post Share on other sites
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