diamondette Posted September 2, 2011 Share Posted September 2, 2011 a while ago my BF broke my trust in a BIG way (he didnt cheat tho but lied and lied- long story) and ive never got over it so far and this is y- i always notice that he is speaks to several women who he has never told me about (in all the years of dating) when i asked him who they were he said they known each other for years or work collegues etc but they have no relevance in his life so didnt think to mention them to me. so i asked him whilst im still getting the trust back for him to tell me everytime he has contact with a girl, he agreed. i since then found out he has been texting girls (not flirting) without STILL telling me, i went mad and said how am i ment to get trust back if he cant keep his word so he promised me again and then this morning he was doing it again with another girl! i dunno who she is and theres no flirting but y isnt he telling me there chatting. Fair enough i have many male mates but i tell my BF everything, when i chat to them, what is said etc. y cant he do the same back? is my BF just a crap one or is it a guy thing? there texts are all innocent there no x's or flirting but y cant he just keep his word to me?!?! IMO u shouldnt give someone your word if u have no intention of going thru with it Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted September 2, 2011 Share Posted September 2, 2011 How old are you? Link to post Share on other sites
Layzie89 Posted September 4, 2011 Share Posted September 4, 2011 I think you're a little insecure. If hes not flirting with them or anything like that then I don't see what the issue is. People talk to other people, thats just how things are. Link to post Share on other sites
Feelin Frisky Posted September 4, 2011 Share Posted September 4, 2011 It's just him. Not all males behave the same. You may be unfortunate however for find someone else just like him--it still doesn't mean we all are. Link to post Share on other sites
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