What matters more--boob size to men, or penis size to women?

[You'reasian]

I'm just random don't worry about it!!

 

The most important thing about boobs are their shape. Tear drops, firm or slight hangers that go BAM!

[xoxoDaniellexoxo]

Isn't 5'4 the average size of a woman?

 

But I think women are getting taller. So many young girls seem tall and gangly

 

I am short compaired to a lot of my friends and other girls!! I think they are getting a lot taller, I was tall growing up, until 7th grade when everyone else caught up to me! Apparently I just grew up emotionally and pyschically before a lot of other kids! I don't mind being shorter most the time except when I need to see and someone taller is in front of me, like movies or concerts, the best is when they see me and still stand directly in front of me!! I'm not carrying like stilts in my purse people!

[xoxoDaniellexoxo]

The most important thing about boobs are their shape. Tear drops' date=' firm or slight hangers that go BAM![/quote']

Haha good to know!! I always thinks its funny when girls compain theirs aren't perky and when I suggest working the pec muscles they look at me like I am an alien, but it works!! The muscle is keeping them up as once said in a movie, "My breats aren't saying hello now? Right now they are giving off more of a passing nod rather than an outright greeting" Work the muscles and you get an outright greeting!!

[somedude81]

Haha good to know!! I always thinks its funny when girls compain theirs aren't perky and when I suggest working the pec muscles they look at me like I am an alien, but it works!! The muscle is keeping them up as once said in a movie, "My breats aren't saying hello now? Right now they are giving off more of a passing nod rather than an outright greeting" Work the muscles and you get an outright greeting!!

Really, does that actually work?

 

What exercises do you do?

[xoxoDaniellexoxo]

Really, does that actually work?

 

What exercises do you do?

 

Yeah it works, I do a lot of chest workouts, the same ones guys use to get pecs help women's breats stay lifted. Chest presses, pushups, inclined press, arnold lifts, anything that works your shoulders and chest are helpful. I know women who have had three kids but even while they were pregnant they did those and their breats never got saggy. At first it feels weird doing the workouts because your whole chest feels tighter and sore for a couple days but after a day you are good and can do them all over, pushups are good cause you don't need any equipment, but you have to do them right, once you get good you can raise one leg for an even more intense workout.

[somedude81]

Wow, that's cool stuff.

 

I've got a friend who's got pretty big boobs and I'm always trying to get her to work out with me. Heh, I wonder how well, "It will keep your boobs perky" will work on her to get her to work out.

 

One thing though, it must be weird doing pushups and bench presses with big ole meat bags getting in the way.

[xoxoDaniellexoxo]

Wow, that's cool stuff.

 

I've got a friend who's got pretty big boobs and I'm always trying to get her to work out with me. Heh, I wonder how well, "It will keep your boobs perky" will work on her to get her to work out.

 

One thing though, it must be weird doing pushups and bench presses with big ole meat bags getting in the way.

 

 

Haha as long as you wear a sports bra you should be good! It is only ever a problem if you get like elbowed cause it hurts!!

[somedude81]

Cool, I'll have to talk to her about it.

 

Elbowed? Somebody elbowed you in a boob?

[AHardDaysNight]

This makes me want to stuff my pants.

 

What would you think if you saw a guy who looked like he had a big penis?

[ScienceGal]

penis size if it's extreme (too large or too small) And by small I mean that I feel really bad for any man that has a micro penis. Google it if you've never heard of it.

 

I am a petite small breasted woman, and the only time I wish I had a little more in that area is when I want to wear a nice formal dress and have some shape... other than that, I'm good!

Edited September 3, 2011 by ScienceGal

[AHardDaysNight]

I hope you realize that last post was a joke!

 

I think both are irrelevant, to the right person.

[Disenchantedly Yours]

I am short compaired to a lot of my friends and other girls!! I think they are getting a lot taller, I was tall growing up, until 7th grade when everyone else caught up to me! Apparently I just grew up emotionally and pyschically before a lot of other kids! I don't mind being shorter most the time except when I need to see and someone taller is in front of me, like movies or concerts, the best is when they see me and still stand directly in front of me!! I'm not carrying like stilts in my purse people!

 

Yeah, don't I know it. I remember going to see U2 with my brother one time and this girl who was a good 5 inches taller then me kept trying to push me out of the way to get closer to the stage. We were like 10 feet from it. My brother totally blocked her though. Got to love big brothers.

[Disenchantedly Yours]

... big ole meat bags getting in the way.

 

Weren't you one of the guys complaining about being shorter? Now you're gonna go and call women's boobs "meat bags". Yikes.

[xoxoDaniellexoxo]

Cool, I'll have to talk to her about it.

 

Elbowed? Somebody elbowed you in a boob?

 

Yep usually it is an accident but it happens and it hurts SOOO bad!! A guy did it in line at the movies once and I thought I was going to start crying it hurt so bad!

[somedude81]

Weren't you one of the guys complaining about being shorter? Now you're gonna go and call women's boobs "meat bags". Yikes.

LOL!

 

You missed the part where it was a joke, Daniellexxx obviously thought it was funny.

 

Just to make it clear, I love boobs. Big ones give me the deer in headlights effect

Yep usually it is an accident but it happens and it hurts SOOO bad!! A guy did it in line at the movies once and I thought I was going to start crying it hurt so bad!

Ouch, I guess boobs are kind of like giant balls (the man kind) and they're always out there.

Edited September 3, 2011 by somedude81

[Disenchantedly Yours]

LOL!

 

You missed the part where it was a joke, Daniellexxx obviously thought it was funny.

 

Just to make it clear, I love boobs. Big ones give me the deer in headlights effect

 

No I know you were joking and that's cool. And loving boobs is great.

 

I just think calling women's boobs "meat bags", is cringe worthy. It just sounds really awful.

[xoxoDaniellexoxo]

Yeah, don't I know it. I remember going to see U2 with my brother one time and this girl who was a good 5 inches taller then me kept trying to push me out of the way to get closer to the stage. We were like 10 feet from it. My brother totally blocked her though. Got to love big brothers.

 

I have a younger brother who loves to pick on me still lol!! He forgets that I can choose to buy him booze or to say no lol!! He loves to give me crap because he is taller!!

[xoxoDaniellexoxo]

No I know you were joking and that's cool. And loving boobs is great.

 

I just think calling women's boobs "meat bags", is cringe worthy. It just sounds really awful.

 

Especially since boobs are fat and not muscle lol!! Or salin or silicon depending on the woman.

[ThsAmericanLife]

Especially since boobs are fat and not muscle lol!!

 

Yes... you just HAD to remind me

 

When I used to run competitively, it really bummed me out to see my boobs disappear.

 

I will add that lifting weights does wonders for women of all sizes. Even if you have next to none, it gives you that beautiful decollete and can make your chest area look really pretty. Not to mention your back.

 

I'm thinking about this dress that Kate Hudson wore in a movie called "10 ways to Lose a Guy" or something like that. It was a beautiful, low cut yellow satin dress with a very low back. Loved that.

[xoxoDaniellexoxo]

Yes... you just HAD to remind me

 

When I used to run competitively, it really bummed me out to see my boobs disappear.

 

I will add that lifting weights does wonders for women of all sizes. Even if you have next to none, it gives you that beautiful decollete and can make your chest area look really pretty. Not to mention your back.

 

I'm thinking about this dress that Kate Hudson wore in a movie called "10 ways to Lose a Guy" or something like that. It was a beautiful, low cut yellow satin dress with a very low back. Loved that.

 

 

OMG!!! ARE YOU MY MOVIE LOVING TWIN?!?!?!?!?!?! That scene and Julia

Roberts in the red dress in "Pretty Woman" are my favorite dress scenes in movie, seriously though I evy girls like you and Kate Hudson because you can wear dresses like that, strapless dresses, are almost IMPOSSIBLE to wear without a strapless gel bra and double stick tape. I seriously hate how you and girls like Kate Hudson get to wear a ton of different clothing styles, my chest prevents me from a lot of styles, like blazers I have to have them custom tailored to fit me, otherwise I look like a pregnant woman or like I am wearing shrink wrap.

 

I agree about weight lifting though it gives and amazing lift to your chest, and I think it makes your posture better too, my mom always told me to walk with my shoulders back and head high and lifting taught me I can't slouch or I could hurt myself.

[ThsAmericanLife]

OMG!!! ARE YOU MY MOVIE LOVING TWIN?!?!?!?!?!?! That scene and Julia

Roberts in the red dress in "Pretty Woman" are my favorite dress scenes in movie, seriously though I evy girls like you and Kate Hudson because you can wear dresses like that, strapless dresses, are almost IMPOSSIBLE to wear without a strapless gel bra and double stick tape. I seriously hate how you and girls like Kate Hudson get to wear a ton of different clothing styles, my chest prevents me from a lot of styles, like blazers I have to have them custom tailored to fit me, otherwise I look like a pregnant woman or like I am wearing shrink wrap.

 

I agree about weight lifting though it gives and amazing lift to your chest, and I think it makes your posture better too, my mom always told me to walk with my shoulders back and head high and lifting taught me I can't slouch or I could hurt myself.

 

Very good advice from your mom!!

 

But on the dress thing... yea, we got to work what we have That is what fashion is all about.

 

... and will say, we 'Kate Hudson' types will never be mistaken for 'Jessica Rabbit' either

 

Remember that movie? Who framed Roger Rabbit? She says "Oh, I'm just drawn this way".

[thatone]

I do find it disturbing that any parent would allow their child to go under the knife for the sake of vanity... but these young women have fathers too.

 

If they've been keeping copies of 'Maxim' or 'Playboy' around the house, you could hardly blame the girls for being influenced by that.

 

Sure, I don't doubt that men prefer natural. But if they prefer bigger than a B-cup, then they can't complain about women getting implants. Before the advent of implants, that was the average breast size. It is more like a 'C' cup now...

 

In my other thread, I mention my best friend from HS and my sister getting them. Both me and my sister got the 'flat' gene. Since I'm also very athletic, I'm not packing on the pounds to get bigger boobs either.

 

Both of their sets look awesome, and don't feel a bit like baseballs. Sure, not the same as 'real', but not a bad substitute. Modern technology is pretty awesome. My sister swears that her current BF had no idea hers were 'fake' before she told him. Silicone is much more realistic than saline. Both of them got silicone.

 

As for me, I'm too much of a 'feminist' to do it. Sure, a guy will 'settle' for a woman with a flat chest... but I don't enjoy the disappointed feeling they get (although, mine are very pretty...). And I also don't enjoy half of my body being ignored that way, being considered an after thought, or 'humoring me'.

 

I'm lucky that my arse and legs are pretty awesome, or else I'd be totally out of luck. I'm also lucky that I'm not going to have big fat bags hanging down to my knees someday (um, Danielle... after you have kids and when you get a little older, those puppies will likely be needing some maintenance)

 

Anyway, I'm older now... so getting implants would be as ridiculous as getting a tattoo... which I also thought about doing when I was younger, but didn't.

 

I'm still NOT buying that most men would diss a woman for having implants if the choice was to be with a 'flat' woman... especially if they were well done. yes some would... but not most.

 

most men would never bring it up, but if they were asked anonymously you would be surprised at how many really don't care and say that they prefer natural even if natural is small.

 

and yeah i'm fully aware that the average is a B cup and a C cup becoming average is likely due to nothing but more people, nevermind just women, being overweight these days.

 

i still don't care if they're smaller .

[SWAN808]

While I enjoy the aesthetics of a nicely sized and well shaped penis, unless it appears to be the victim of some communicable disease, a man's John Thomas will neither be a deal maker or breaker for me.

 

I posted earlier this week about a man from another country who I had been talking to and exchanging pictures with and I did mention what a lovely member he had, but I was only able to appreciate it because I had already become attracted to the rest of him. He was physically my type in other ways first. Broad shoulders, big chest, muscular arms, nice face, etc. Also what attracted me to him was the flood of compliments he sent my way. He constantly called me sexy, beautiful, stunning, amazing..etc. So when I got to see more of him, the bountiful apparatus between his legs just added another pleasing dimension to his appearance.

If I hadn't been attracted to his face and body and had he not been attracted to me, I would have had no urge to explore him any further. Conversely, if he had been less then stellarly endowed, I might have been slightly disappointed, but only slightly. It would have not been the end of the world. Unfortunately, I had to stop our conversations because we just weren't compatible. However if we had continued talking, it would not have been because of what he carried between his legs.

 

I think this is where many men have a mistaken notion about women. They believe that a man's penis size will make a difference in whether or not we decide to date or sleep with a guy. While I'm sure there might be some exceptions, for the majority of women, it will make no difference at all whether or not we go to bed with a man.

 

If we like a man, we wont turn him away because his penis is smaller than average and if we aren't attracted to him, then even a tool that has to be carried around in a wheel barrel won't turn our no into a yes.

Imagine it this way, picture some food that you really love. Maybe the best chocolate cake ever, sure you'll want a big slice, but if all that's being served are sample sizes, you're not going to say no, you'll take it, and be grateful you were able to have any at all.

 

Now try to imagine a food you are repulsed by. For me it would be fried liver and onions, maybe, for me its mushy canned peas. If someone tried to tempt me into eating it by saying "Oh I know you hate liver, but here's a really huge peice of it for you!" or "here's a super size spoonful of soggy peas."...It would not make me more likely to want it.

 

cant believe no one replied to this excellent post...one of the most lucid and actually from a female as opposed to a guy chiming in...

 

Love the food analogy...a penis is not a seperate entity but an extension of the man attatched...so it makes perfect sense that how a woman feels overall about the man affects the balance more than just regarding the penis.

 

The only issue I raise is that whilst its mentioned that it wouldnt make a difference if a woman goes to bed with a man - might it make a difference in the longer term?

 

It does seem this type of issue depends on the woman.

 

I am not fussed about breast size although I dont like them too large. I would be disappointed if there was nothing there at all...but its not a big deal for me.

[xoxoDaniellexoxo]

Very good advice from your mom!!

 

But on the dress thing... yea, we got to work what we have That is what fashion is all about.

 

... and will say, we 'Kate Hudson' types will never be mistaken for 'Jessica Rabbit' either

 

Remember that movie? Who framed Roger Rabbit? She says "Oh, I'm just drawn this way".

 

Who could forget Jessica Rabbit, bright red hair that matched her dress that had a slit up one thigh, lol. Oh well I think everyone wants what they can't have sometimes, straight hair wants curly, blue eyes want brown, big chest want small ect. But like you said gotta work what you have I mean look at Christina Hendricks, if there was ever a woman working it it would be her.

[Disenchantedly Yours]

xoxoDaneillexoxo, you are right about that. People seem to want what they don't have. My brother dated a girl with beautiful blue eyes and she actually would wear brown contacts. Crazy.

 

 

I'm thinking about this dress that Kate Hudson wore in a movie called "10 ways to Lose a Guy" or something like that. It was a beautiful, low cut yellow satin dress with a very low back. Loved that.

 

That dress was goregous! Ugg, I use to love the fact that Kate Hudson seemed to love her body the way it was. But then she went and got implants. Such a shame.