wilsonx Posted September 11, 2011 Share Posted September 11, 2011 Oh jesus lol... this thread is going to get 4k views in 2 days WOW NC works??? huh what??? A year and a half??? I cant wait that long!!! Monkey needs a tree to climb into =) Link to post Share on other sites
wilsonx Posted September 11, 2011 Share Posted September 11, 2011 haha i was talking to a girl today who I have been chatting with for the past month or so and she ended a relationship with her 5 year boyfriend about a month ago. I told her the monkey reaching from one branch to another philosophy as you just explained and I said I do not need to grab a branch before letting go of another, I am fine on the ground. So she told me, I don't like it here on the ground, I need another tree to climb up, I swear to you she said this. I was like WOW. Incoming STOP LOOKING for the CLOWN Thread http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t278306/ Link to post Share on other sites
wilsonx Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 That girl has DANGER written all over her! Either guys are going to take advantage of her (not wanting anything from her but sex) or some fool (future reboundee) is going to think that he is different, end up having his heart ripped out, stomped on and shoved up his a55. Glad that you are smart enough to know better! Sad thing is... There will be a long line of guys from both camps (guys who only want to use her or future reboundees) lining up. Ding Ding Ding There is already a line. She told me yesterday straight up that she feels like a whore, she's looking for the comfort that her old boyfriend gave her. I told her shes not going to find it in a bar. The funny part is its like my ex. I saw the same patterns of behaviors etc etc. I asked her if she came from a broken family because she told me her sister is a relationship jumper and her brother is bipolar. She was like nope, my mom and dad are still together. I said hmmm really? Do you get along with your parents and here it comes. She said no, my dad is an abusive alcoholic and my mom really was never there for me. Link to post Share on other sites
ScienceGal Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 So she told me, I don't like it here on the ground, I need another tree to climb up, I swear to you she said this. I was like WOW. Holy red flag! I think it's ok to really want the tree, and believe me, I really really do. But you have to be ok standing still on the ground too. Patience. I hope you're not seriously considering dating her Link to post Share on other sites
wilsonx Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 LOL dating absolutely not, i have dabbled with the idea of cutting to the front of the other line though but that's what got me into the trouble I am in now so I actually have no intentions of doing anything with her. I was just having conversation with her because I saw anger/hurt in her, it was something different that you do not see in everyday smiling people Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 haha i was talking to a girl today who I have been chatting with for the past month or so and she ended a relationship with her 5 year boyfriend about a month ago. I told her the monkey reaching from one branch to another philosophy as you just explained and I said I do not need to grab a branch before letting go of another, I am fine on the ground. So she told me, I don't like it here on the ground, I need another tree to climb up, I swear to you she said this. I was like WOW. Incoming STOP LOOKING for the CLOWN Thread http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t278306/ Wilson, I had a thread about my plain jane little friend that has literally swung from one tree branch to another her entire life- she's doing well to leave a week in between relationships. She went from a highschool long term bf to a 5 year relationship/engagement, to a year and a half relationship, and recently moved in with someone she met a week out of her last relationship. She's always been the dumpee, never the dumper. Her explanation for this- "I can't be alone, I don't want to be alone". She was involved with this new guy and saying "I love you" right away. I think it's been 5-6 weeks since her last break up and she's now living with the new guy. Link to post Share on other sites
wilsonx Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 I actually read that thread... people like that will never be happy with their own lives... trust me, I learned a valuable lesson from this breakup... stay the **** away from tree swingers Link to post Share on other sites
visualbasicide Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 Abandonment issues. Blah. I'd rather clean my ears with a shotgun than get involved with another one of those gal's. Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 I actually read that thread... people like that will never be happy with their own lives... trust me, I learned a valuable lesson from this breakup... stay the **** away from tree swingers As you should- the girl in question is completely lacking in self esteem, substance and identity. She is SO needy- not only as a friend, but as a gf. People like this are very needy people. They tend to be either chronic dumpers or chronic dumpees. My younger friend? A chronic dumpee. She's too needy to handle. Link to post Share on other sites
mike588 Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 I often wish that I could lose my mind sometimes,,,, then maybe I'd be free of memories you left behind. Link to post Share on other sites
visualbasicide Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 I often wish that I could lose my mind sometimes,,,, then maybe I'd be free of memories you left behind. OMG I would LOVE that, but with my luck, somebody else would find it Link to post Share on other sites
Marianis Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 after mm 3 months of NC with my ex of 3 years .. mmm i saw in his facebook he has a new gf! .. a girl he always wanted to date in highschool.. .. i even saw pics of him with her.. when we were on a break and he swear that he didnt have anyone else.. ha ha! .. what a liar... we used to have a fake facebook account to play games and i used that facebook to see his.... when i saw.. like a month ago that he had that new gf.. i was upset and sad and mad! .. so i just put that "i liked it".. and a profile pic of me .. for him to know it was me... he sent a message to that facebook account saying : "have you always had this account?! " not even a hello or anything.. not even a .. i hope you are ok! .. i didnt reply .. a week after he sent another meesage saying "silence gifted with more silence" then he blocked me from that accoutn to hahahaha..... the sad thing is that after 3 moths I STILL WANT TO KNOW ABOUT HIM ... i still want him back... im a fool but ... i hope time can heal my heart... cause i still cry over him.. . not easy Link to post Share on other sites
wilsonx Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 As you should- the girl in question is completely lacking in self esteem, substance and identity. She is SO needy- not only as a friend, but as a gf. People like this are very needy people. They tend to be either chronic dumpers or chronic dumpees. My younger friend? A chronic dumpee. She's too needy to handle. Yea, cluster B personality. Oh trust me, been there done that wearing the T-shirt. Although my t-shirts dont look as good as yours do =) Link to post Share on other sites
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