Silksatin Posted May 7, 2004 Share Posted May 7, 2004 'Tis my first post here ... I just have one simple question....Why is it that whenever I try to think of him, trying to imagine spending time together, or something else, my eyes feel like they're burning.....it took me months to figure this out; at first I thought there was just something wrong with my eyes *lol* but now I realize it is because I am supressing tears. But why in the world would I want to cry?? I also have a hard time just thinking of him....I barely think of him, but I've tried to deny this for months as well. But I can't take it any longer because I am not myself any more. What could this mean? this relationship is not good for me? Thanks for any reply Link to post Share on other sites
LILUIL Posted May 7, 2004 Share Posted May 7, 2004 It's kinda hard to imagine what u r goin thru. I'm not sure if I understand the situation properly. Is he hurting you that you have tears..... Here's an old quote and I hope it will speak to your situation in some way..... (not sure if relevant) "Not one guy is worth your tears and if you find one who IS worth your tears, he will be the one who won't make you cry" Link to post Share on other sites
opentonewadvice Posted May 7, 2004 Share Posted May 7, 2004 I think you feel this way because he is not fully giving you all of what you want and expect. although you have such strong feelings for him that run deep, i think that causes those tears almost like smiling on the outside but crying on the inside so emotional, feeling like your on a rollercoaster with that person. And sometimes you may want to deny those feelings you feel attached to but you cannot help but love him. So you hope you are not just making a mistake. I can somewhat relate atleast by the little details you gave. Link to post Share on other sites
meanttolive4ever Posted May 10, 2004 Share Posted May 10, 2004 well whenever i see him out...my heart starts beating really fast and hard and sometimes it stops...i get all red faced and i get so nervous..what the hell is wrong with me? Link to post Share on other sites
simplybrill Posted June 2, 2004 Share Posted June 2, 2004 meanttolive: you're probably just nervous - which is understandable, Its always nerve-wrecking running into your ex! Im trying to avoid mine like the plague right now haha. Silksatin: your body's telling you something here, you're probably unhappy with things and like opentonewadvice said , he's not giving you something here, and your'e like crying on the inside. I was like this when I was with my ex, so I know what you're talking about...feel free to write if you need any more advice Link to post Share on other sites
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