How do i deal with my "complicated" girlfriend?

[LZ2000]

This issue has been bugging me for about a month.

 

My girlfriend and I love each other dearly, however it seems that lately, she has very little time for me due to a commitment to a special interest group (for privacy's sake, the nature of the group will not be revealed) that she has made and is currently engaged in.

 

The problem is that she told me that the special interest group gives her much stress and makes her tired. And at times, she felt uncomfortable being in it and has told me that she wished she left it about a month ago.

 

But she still is a member of that special interest group. At times, I wonder why she has persisted in staying with that group. I also wonder if she is being "chained up" by her own self imposed obligations to that group. And I can see the obvious signs of her being stressed and withdrawn somewhat.

 

What can i do at this point in time ? My patience is running out and I have been trying to reason with my emotions of jealousy, and I made it a point never to force her to do something she doesn't want to do. Please advice, i am at my wit's end.

[wannabdone]

LZ... I had noticed no one has responded to your post. I don't know if you meant to post it here or not, but wanted to let you know that this is a forum for OW/OM, people who are in or out of affairs.

 

I just hate to see someone that says i'm at my wits end and there isn't even a response to say you might want to post it else where.

[LZ2000]

LZ... I had noticed no one has responded to your post. I don't know if you meant to post it here or not, but wanted to let you know that this is a forum for OW/OM, people who are in or out of affairs.

 

I just hate to see someone that says i'm at my wits end and there isn't even a response to say you might want to post it else where.

 

wanna, i apologise for posting my problem here, where it's inappropriate. my bad.