Steven T Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 My ex emailed me via my YouTube account last night. She asked how I was and said she missed me. I replied telling her "I am good" and asked how she was. I guess I wanted to reply because she made the effort to send me a message and shows she still cares and thinks about me and maybe to give us another go. She hasnt replied... Back to square one. I never learn. Link to post Share on other sites
radiodarcy Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 don't be so down on yourself Steven, it happens. the first time i went NC the ex contacted me numerous times and i responded every single time until i broke NC for good; only to get hurt again. as someone said on another thread, sometimes we have to break NC to remind ourselves how important it is to stick to it. so let this be a reminder of that and carry one Link to post Share on other sites
Author Steven T Posted September 9, 2011 Author Share Posted September 9, 2011 Very true. I know next time I will not respond! As it's been so long I thought she may have had a change of heart but I guess not, unless she does reply in time... Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedT Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 It's ok. Just start again, block her address if it helps. Do whatever helps you. Breadcrumbs and you ate em, next time read it when you're not hungry! Link to post Share on other sites
radiodarcy Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 It's ok. Just start again, block her address if it helps. Do whatever helps you. Breadcrumbs and you ate em, next time read it when you're not hungry! hehehe..well said Link to post Share on other sites
Author Steven T Posted September 9, 2011 Author Share Posted September 9, 2011 It's ok. Just start again, block her address if it helps. Do whatever helps you. Breadcrumbs and you ate em, next time read it when you're not hungry! Yes. I will be blocking her just like I changed my number. I just feel rather down today because she got back in contact with me. I was doing so well. Link to post Share on other sites
ScienceGal Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 My ex emailed me via my YouTube account last night. She asked how I was and said she missed me. I replied telling her "I am good" and asked how she was. I guess I wanted to reply because she made the effort to send me a message and shows she still cares and thinks about me and maybe to give us another go. She hasnt replied... Back to square one. I never learn. Was this in an email? If it was last night, is it possible that she hasn't had time to respond yet? Not that I am trying to get your hopes up... Don't be so hard on yourself, I would have done the same thing I still love my ex, even though he doesn't deserve it! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Steven T Posted September 9, 2011 Author Share Posted September 9, 2011 Yes via YouTube, it was a personal message sent to my YouTube account. You could be right maybe she hasnt checked her inbox yet. I guess it's nice she still thinks of me as I miss the way the sunshine lights up her face. Link to post Share on other sites
ScienceGal Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 I guess it's nice she still thinks of me as I miss the way the sunshine lights up her face. Aww. You're very sweet! I wish the best for you. Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedT Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 i know you miss her, but dont think positive things about her and good for you for blocking her and changing your number. I DID TOO! Try to think crappy things about her and focus on the bad times until you heal & then, when feelings are not involved, reflect on the good times and appreciate them for what they were... I am trying to hate him, when i still love him, but for every positive, i make sure i think of two negatives!! Link to post Share on other sites
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