Woggle Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 Do your friends ever make fun of you because you are faithful? Do they ever call you a stepford wife because you don't cheat on your husband? Do you look at women who cheat and get envious because they are having all the fun? Link to post Share on other sites
DaisyLeigh Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 No. I would not have friends who would think that being faithful was a bad thing. No. I would not have friends who would think that being a cheating slut was a good thing. No. I would never look at cheating as a good thing. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 No to all three, and no I don't know any women that would think that way, let alone any that would even ask those kind of questions. But that's because we all have lives. Link to post Share on other sites
sunshinegirl Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 God no!!! In our extended circle of friends, we've had something like 8 weddings over the last two summers. One couple got married the week before we did... and we later learned that 3 months after their wedding, she was cheating on him. The circle of friends has rallied around him as he moved out and started divorce proceedings, and she is roundly condemned and ostracized from the group. What the heck kind of company do you keep, Woggle? Or is this a hypothetical question? Link to post Share on other sites
Severely Unamused Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 No to all 3. Link to post Share on other sites
TBH Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 Do your friends ever make fun of you because you are faithful? No, why would they? Do they ever call you a stepford wife because you don't cheat on your husband? again no, why would they? Do you look at women who cheat and get envious because they are having all the fun? well firstly i dont know of anyone personally (male or female) who is having an affair, and secondly if i did i certainly wouldnt be jealous. if anyone i know is being unfaithful they certainly arent going around bragging about it! Link to post Share on other sites
make me believe Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 A big NO to all three. These questions are kind of ridiculous. Unfaithful people are "having all the fun?" Really? Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 You've gotta be joking. Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 Wog, you truly have a low opinion of women if you believe these things. You must think we are idiots, on the whole. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted September 10, 2011 Author Share Posted September 10, 2011 You have never been told any of those things? I have been around a few women who thought that faithful women were stupid stepford wives. Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 You have never been told any of those things? I have been around a few women who thought that faithful women were stupid stepford wives. Never. And anyway--I'm not in middle school. If someone said that to me, I would see through it to their insecurity and envy. And I wouldn't choose to spend my time with someone like that. Link to post Share on other sites
Moanin Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 (edited) You have never been told any of those things? I have been around a few women who thought that faithful women were stupid stepford wives. No, never. I would say that they are not real friends then... I have cheated in my marriage, but never discussed it with my friends because I fear the backlash.....there would be no high-fiving trust me. Edited September 10, 2011 by Moanin Link to post Share on other sites
KR10N Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 You have never been told any of those things? I have been around a few women who thought that faithful women were stupid stepford wives.You sir, are a nincompoop. Link to post Share on other sites
Afishwithabike Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 No to all three questions. I don't know any married female in my circle of friends who would answer "yes". I can't believe this is a serious question. Link to post Share on other sites
KathyM Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 Do your friends ever make fun of you because you are faithful? Do they ever call you a stepford wife because you don't cheat on your husband? Do you look at women who cheat and get envious because they are having all the fun? Heck, no. Other women I know respect me because I have been a faithful wife and have stayed with my husband all these years, despite all the challenges we've had to face together. And I have plenty of fun WITH MY HUSBAND. I don't envy cheaters, I pity them. They are ruining their lives and the lives of their spouses, children and AP. Link to post Share on other sites
KR10N Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 Heck, no. Other women I know respect me because I have been a faithful wife and have stayed with my husband all these years, despite all the challenges we've had to face together. And I have plenty of fun WITH MY HUSBAND. I don't envy cheaters, I pity them. They are ruining their lives and the lives of their spouses, children and AP.Hallelujah!!!:bunny::bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
LittleTiger Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 No, no and no!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted September 10, 2011 Author Share Posted September 10, 2011 Do I really just have the displeasure of growing up and working with some of the most dishonest and shady women on the planet and it has skewed my perspective? I can't believe how people think it is absurd to even answer this question since I see this mentality all the time. Link to post Share on other sites
KR10N Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 Do I really just have the displeasure of growing up and working with some of the most dishonest and shady women on the planet and it has skewed my perspective? I can't believe how people think it is absurd to even answer this question since I see this mentality all the time.The worst part being that you're naive enough to believe this. You are capable of your own thoughts, don't act as if you were conditioned in not thinking rationally. Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 Do I really just have the displeasure of growing up and working with some of the most dishonest and shady women on the planet and it has skewed my perspective? I can't believe how people think it is absurd to even answer this question since I see this mentality all the time. No, you don't. You are dishonest. And asking this question to your "friends" on LoveShack is dishonest. You already know perfectly well where most of us stand on all of this nonsense. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted September 10, 2011 Author Share Posted September 10, 2011 No, you don't. You are dishonest. And asking this question to your "friends" on LoveShack is dishonest. You already know perfectly well where most of us stand on all of this nonsense. I never accused anybody here of being unfaithful but I am wondering if you feel the pressure to be. Link to post Share on other sites
visualbasicide Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 I think it's a valid question, I only know of a handful of people who haven't cheated on or been cheated on by their spouse/SO. No I don't keep company with these people but from what I have witnessed in my life monogamy is a rarity. I'm not saying it's men or women exclusively, seems about even to me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted September 10, 2011 Author Share Posted September 10, 2011 Also when you look at most cheating women they usually have friends that encourage it. Link to post Share on other sites
visualbasicide Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 Also when you look at most cheating women they usually have friends that encourage it. and cousins and mothers, and grand mothers and aunts.... Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 Woggle, do you realize how disgustingly insulting all of this is to women? Answer some questions for me: Do you have any idea, or give a crap, how many women reading this thread RIGHT NOW have been cheated on, while they were faithful? Do you have ANY IDEA how many women witnessed their fathers cheating on their moms, and lived with the fallout from that, as children? Do you have ANY IDEA how many women reading this thread right now have been physically, emotionally and / or sexually abused as children by their FATHER or by other authority figures in their lives? Do you have ANY IDEA how many women reading this STUPID ASS THREAD right now have been RAPED by a MAN in their life? No, you do not. But why aren't the women who have experienced any, or all of these miseries at the hands of men here on LoveShack day in and day out looking for justification to hate all men, and justification to trash their current "good" relationship? WHY? And if they did, would they be PERFECTLY CORRECT IN HATING, INSULTING, DENIGRATING, UNDERMINING THE POTENTIAL FOR GOOD AND HONOR in ALL men because of their past experiences, IN YOUR OPINION? I also must add that there are many, many men who have suffered all kinds of abuse who are NOT here blaming their woes on that day after day - as well as willingly sacrificing a potentially good marriage for the "pleasure" of keeping up the blame and self pity. Evidently, you think you are the only person on the planet who has suffered, and you are sure self-righteous about your "right" to remain miserable about it forever. Is the day ever going to come where you take ownership of your OWN life, your OWN happiness, your OWN state of mind? Or will you continue to blame everything on your mother, ex wife, two sleazy co-workers and random Internet losers for all of eternity? Link to post Share on other sites
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