littlemissomg Posted May 9, 2004 Share Posted May 9, 2004 Ok, here goes... I met a guy a few months ago and since then we have been having "casual no strings" which suits us both. A few weeks ago I saw one of his mates who asked if I'd considered making things more serious with him... I said no, he said his mate hadn't put him up to asking me that. Well last night I went back to the guy's house and decided I'd test the water to see if maybe he had asked his mate. I told him I didn't feel too good and just wanted to sleep... he said 'ok, let's go to sleep then' so he just held me all night, stroking my hair and kissing my forehead, holding my hand, watching me lie there with him. I was really surprised that he was like that. He kept asking if I was ok, saying he didn't like to see me ill. At one point I suggested I could call a cab home if he wanted, he was like 'well you can go whenever you want if you don't want to be here, but I want you here'. I guess I tried that out of curiosity, just to see what he would react like. Could he want more than the "casual no strings" we have? Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted May 9, 2004 Share Posted May 9, 2004 He might. Sounds like a caring fellow for sure. This guy might be worth checking out for something more than casual. He could be a real treasure. Link to post Share on other sites
Author littlemissomg Posted May 9, 2004 Author Share Posted May 9, 2004 Yeah he is a nice guy... I just never got the impression he would want anything more than what we have now. I didn't expect anything more (kind of avoided a relationship since being cheated on last year) but I saw him in a different light last night. Well, his mate took my sister out for a meal the other night and me and this guy were chatting about it all... I made a joke about how I wouldn't know if the place was nice as he never took me out for dinner.... so I guess I've put the idea there although I was just kidding. Ah well... we'll see! I'm just getting to the stage where maybe I would consider a relationship if the chance came along... I needed this space from dating/ being involved to sort my head out after what happened. Thank you for your reply Link to post Share on other sites
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