Babyribs Posted May 9, 2004 Share Posted May 9, 2004 Hi everyone; Today a new day for me, even thought everyone saids forget about her my heart cant, does anyone know anything about forgeting, because if there's a way i can forget about her i will. i miss her teribly and cant eat and sleep, does she miss me? she doesnt contact me and i havent contacted her either. i guess because i cant she has an order of protection on me, so there. i keep waiting by the door hoping she will come over and said she's sorry for what she did. my friends say that will never happen but my heart saids otherwise. will she ever come or will she just forget about me? i dont know but i cant stand this pain and hurt i have and i dont want to miss her anymore, it has been 3 weeks and 2 days today and i have yet to hear anything from her. i dont know what to do. please help Link to post Share on other sites
meanttolive4ever Posted May 9, 2004 Share Posted May 9, 2004 even tho my ex hasnt contacted me in like a week..my heart still says he's coming back but im not letting that stop me from getting out there and meeting new people. I never figured out why whenever a girl dumps a guy the guy always to get back together..but if i guy dumps a girl...the girl wants to get back together and not the guy. For right now , do other stuff to get her off ur mind..like read a book or go clean something..i used to be the same way..id sit around for hours hoping he'd call or waiting for him to come over. It never happened except for when he calls out of the blue. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Babyribs Posted May 9, 2004 Author Share Posted May 9, 2004 Thanks but i have been doing all kinds of stuff to keep my mind off her and after the day is over there it comes again, i should be feeling a lot better since it has been 3 weeks now. i miss her and i dont know what to do about it, expecially when i am off work, i get really sad and think about coming over to her house saying PLEASE DONT CALL THE COPS lets just talk but i am afray she will put me in jail. i dont know should i contact her? Link to post Share on other sites
meanttolive4ever Posted May 9, 2004 Share Posted May 9, 2004 Originally posted by Babyribs Thanks but i have been doing all kinds of stuff to keep my mind off her and after the day is over there it comes again, i should be feeling a lot better since it has been 3 weeks now. i miss her and i dont know what to do about it, expecially when i am off work, i get really sad and think about coming over to her house saying PLEASE DONT CALL THE COPS lets just talk but i am afray she will put me in jail. i dont know should i contact her? Yea expecially at night i get so sad and sometimes cry myself to sleep. I miss how he would call me before we went to sleep. It always made me sleep better. I've tried having my friends contacting him and telling him to come over and talk but he thinks that all i want is booty and its not. I want to really sit down and talk about everything and try to get back together. Even when they told him that i just want to talk...and he would say i'm with her i cant , i'm with her i cant...thats the only excuse he gives. Thinking this is that if he wasnt with her then he'd come see me. But seeing how he's with a high school chick jus aint happening. This girl has nothing to offer him, no money, no car, no job, nothing. She's only 16. Cmon now. I'd try to contact her but i dont know if she would actually talk to you. she might try to blow you off..but trying never hurt anyone. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Babyribs Posted May 9, 2004 Author Share Posted May 9, 2004 What if she calls the cops??? she does have an order of protection. Link to post Share on other sites
meanttolive4ever Posted May 9, 2004 Share Posted May 9, 2004 Originally posted by Babyribs What if she calls the cops??? she does have an order of protection. i mean the only thing you can say is...that you want to talk about this..no need to get the protection order out or anything just talk. But i mean if she's the type of person that is mean and cruel and wouldnt try to talk about things then i wouldnt call Link to post Share on other sites
Author Babyribs Posted May 9, 2004 Author Share Posted May 9, 2004 Originally posted by meanttolive4ever i mean the only thing you can say is...that you want to talk about this..no need to get the protection order out or anything just talk. But i mean if she's the type of person that is mean and cruel and wouldnt try to talk about things then i wouldnt call i dont know what she would do at this point she has 2 lawsuits on her that i placed. just trying to get my stuff back, after she put me in jail. i want to call her and tell her i got her a mothers day gift but what if she calls the cops? i dont know what she would do, i dont know Link to post Share on other sites
calithin83 Posted May 9, 2004 Share Posted May 9, 2004 dont give her a gift? what ure gonna prize her for treating u like crap??? snap out of it! Link to post Share on other sites
calithin83 Posted May 9, 2004 Share Posted May 9, 2004 im sorry but love may seem forever, and its gonna hurt more then 3 weeks but eventually YOU WILL GET OVER IT!! im sorry but after 10months for me of being unhappy with my bf who treated me like i wasnt special..im finally feeling better.....ya i get down and **** sometimes but HELL no do i wanna see his face again...it takes time...but then u realize what ure worth and u put ure foot out and ure hand out and say STOP...then u turn around, walk away and u never wanna go back to them!! Seriously it aint worth it, they aint that special...we just blind sometimes..just hang in there DONT CONTACT HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
meanttolive4ever Posted May 10, 2004 Share Posted May 10, 2004 i think my ex called me yesterday. it keeps popping up as "unknown caller" wtf Link to post Share on other sites
Author Babyribs Posted May 10, 2004 Author Share Posted May 10, 2004 ok so i am back home from work and i completely agree with both of you, I WILL NOT CONTACT HER i promise, i wont prize her for what she did to me ^%$& her i dont need her. i feel a lot better since i started chatting here, i know its going to be hard for a few yet but i know i will get over her eventually and i will find someone who will love me the way i know i can love. she didnt deserve me at all, she's a user who took me for money and now is hanging out with a 20 year old, it makes me think. she's a sad 32 year old woman with kids, single and dating a 20 year old looooooser. what can i say. i am a lot younger than she is and i can find better, she wasnt that great in bed anyways. whatever.... i am moving on BABY. thanks everyone. Link to post Share on other sites
Confusedgrl Posted May 10, 2004 Share Posted May 10, 2004 Hey. I know how much pain you are in. Trust me! i haven been through the same thing. It feels like you can't get over that person, and you want to call them up and ask them why they hurt you. However, the best thing you can do to get over your ex is by going out with your friends, and keeping yourself busy. It will take some time, but trust me you will. I thought I never would, but time helped me ! Link to post Share on other sites
hurtingandconfused Posted May 10, 2004 Share Posted May 10, 2004 You will have your ups and downs. It is obvious that you are in your up right now. However, when you start to feel down do something that will make you feel better. Do not try to contact her again. You do not want a restraining order. Good luck, and don't look back. Link to post Share on other sites
meanttolive4ever Posted May 10, 2004 Share Posted May 10, 2004 see what i do is..i call when noones at the apt...he's off on mondays, so sometimes i call once n hang up...and trust me he knows when i call lol...ive always wanted to leave a message but then never get a call back. i wonder why.oh well.but yea dont call her. I fiured out that if you call them..itll make you seem desperate Link to post Share on other sites
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