TempSain Posted May 5, 2005 Share Posted May 5, 2005 Future, Wow, I just came back to this site after a long break and just saw this old post. Glad your still updating. Reading all your posts sure gives me an idea of what I could be going through under similar circumstances. I do realize one thing about my own marriage. If I was to get a divorce, I don't think I would have as much reflection of my marriage. I think this just reconfirms the fact that I have already fallen out of love. Anyway, keep fixing up that house and have fun with your dogs. Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted May 5, 2005 Share Posted May 5, 2005 You haven't had sex for 9 months? Wow! I'm not the only one who after splitting with my ex didn't have sex for 10 months. After that things didn't get any better; some here and there, mostly nothing. That's why I want to get married as soon as possible! Link to post Share on other sites
future Posted June 27, 2005 Share Posted June 27, 2005 My life is about as back to normal as I would have imagined at this point other than not having a female running around my house screaming at me. My state of mind is very healthy and I've been looking for the right person to ask out. I prayed for a year to pass last year at this time and time has done wonders for me. The distance that time puts on your problems really takes the anger and hurt out of your system. The best part is that I have more energy now than I ever have from staying in shape from running and working out. I even have students telling me that I'm hot on their student evaluations. It makes me feel a little better about circumstances. I also had a couple of things confirmed to me about my ex in May. I had filed for the divorce without really knowing what was going on with her. One of the things I did was find her "secret" email account. I remembered her account and just to kill my own curiosity I checked it one day, the anniversary of me filing for the divorce, and I found several risque photos and love notes on the email celebrating their anniversary of fooling around together for the first time about two weeks before I filed for the divorce. I felt creepy reading this stuff but it really made me happy to know that I did the right thing by getting her out of my life. Now I just have to find someone new to go out with. I took lots of advice from this site and others that recommended that I wait at least a year before going out with someone. And I'm glad I took the time to take care of me. So, I'll see what I can do now to find someone to go out with if I can find a good one. Link to post Share on other sites
future Posted July 22, 2005 Share Posted July 22, 2005 My ex-wife, that wretched excuse of a human being, finally got her filthy hands on the last of my retirement account money she was entitled to in the divorce decree. So, that means that I'll never have to giver her another penny for the rest of my life, never, never, never, ever again. It leaves a bitter taste in my mouth and reminds me of all the hell that I went through in both the marriage and the divorce. I was having a good day until I opened that letter this morning. I knew that she would take the money at some point but to me the divorce wasn't really a over and done with until the last dime was spent. Now it's truly over and maybe I can finally get some peace of mind knowing that there isn't any legal nonsense that is lurking just around the corner to drag all the pain and misery back into the open. I feel like I've just been robbed of not only hard earned money but years of my life too. I can only hope that she'll be repaid tenfold in the future for the misery she brought into my life. Link to post Share on other sites
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