my boyfriends ex needs to leave us alone

[mrsbrightside]

I have been happily dating my boyfriends for almost six mouths. But his ex will not leave us alone! He doesn’t even talk to her. And when he does it’s to tell her to leave us alone.

 

She doesn’t get the message threw her head that he’s not going back to her. A few weeks after we had started dating she out of the blue sent him a nude (where all under age her being the youngest) picture message. We where at my friends house when it had happen. I broke down and cried. 2 of my guy friends then produced to pine him to the wall to grab his phone and check the passed message. That wasn’t enough even though their where no current message. So we had gone on his phone net work messages. Their had been no messages from her sense her so called “friends” had bitched him out. I then proceeded to call her from my phone saying you need to leave my boyfriend alone. She was acting like she didn’t know anything. Then I told her my boyfriends name and then she hung up to call his phone. She seems surprised that I had picked up. I was pissed and yelling at her saying you need to leave us alone! If you loved him like you said you did you would let him be happy with someone who doesn’t mentally abuse him? I can’t remember what was said right before she had hung up. She then text him later that night saying “oh I got so drunk after you girlfriend yelled at me” (she 14 are you kidding me?) and “ oh why did you cheat on my with her if you told me it would have been better” this situation isn’t as bad as the most resent one. Where at my friends house where we first find the picture of her on my boyfriends phone. His best friend is with us because he has a big crush on my little sister and she dose on him too. Everyone’s gone and its just me in a room along . I see that his friends phone is on the table so I grab it because he never lets anyone go threw it. So I look threw the pictures. Till I see one of ex naked fingering her self. I tell my best friend and her boyfriend. Then we tell my boyfriend and his other friend that is their. Everyone for the night is angry at his best friend but he’s to into himself he doesn’t see it. But this picture is from 2 mouth ago when we had just found this picture on 9/11/11 she’s trying to get to his friends (who are also mine) to get to him I just want her out of our lives. If she mess up the relation with me and my boyfriend their will be hell to pay.

 

 

 

I really need help. Because of this situation I cry a lot now and my depression comes back on and off a lot. I have told this story to a few of my friend and have only gotten 2 good answers, ignore it or beat the **** out of her, the first one has not worked at all and I would like to use the second one ad a last resort. I need something to help me please. I have even tried being nice and telling her off nicely I really need help thank you.

Edited September 13, 2011 by mrsbrightside

[Woman In Blue]

Good Lord, why don't you kids spend more time in school learning how to SPELL and write cohesive, gramatically correct sentences and less time acting like a bunch of savages?

 

I couldn't even comprehend that mess you wrote.

 

You're asking adults to muddle through that mess of a post and you're also asking adults for advice on stupid teenage drama and "beating the sh*t" out of this girl. Why are you bothering adults with this childish stupidity?

 

Grow the hell up. Better yet, take your teenage nonsense to other teenagers for their stupid and childish advice, and leave the grownups alone, ok?

 

Good Christ.

[freestyle]

forward the nude pictures she sent back to her mother.

[smalltown]

At that age you shouldn't be allowed enough time to be with a boyfriend to get into that mess!!!

[KathyM]

I have been happily dating my boyfriends for almost six mouths. But his ex will not leave us alone! He doesn’t even talk to her. And when he does it’s to tell her to leave us alone.

 

 

She doesn’t get the message threw her head that he’s not going back to her. A few weeks after we had started dating she out of the blue sent him a nude (where all under age her being the youngest) picture message. We where at my friends house when it had happen. I broke down and cried. 2 of my guy friends then produced to pine him to the wall to grab his phone and check the passed message. That wasn’t enough even though their where no current message. So we had gone on his phone net work messages. Their had been no messages from her sense her so called “friends” had bitched him out. I then proceeded to call her from my phone saying you need to leave my boyfriend alone. She was acting like she didn’t know anything. Then I told her my boyfriends name and then she hung up to call his phone. She seems surprised that I had picked up. I was pissed and yelling at her saying you need to leave us alone! If you loved him like you said you did you would let him be happy with someone who doesn’t mentally abuse him? I can’t remember what was said right before she had hung up. She then text him later that night saying “oh I got so drunk after you girlfriend yelled at me” (she 14 are you kidding me?) and “ oh why did you cheat on my with her if you told me it would have been better” this situation isn’t as bad as the most resent one. Where at my friends house where we first find the picture of her on my boyfriends phone. His best friend is with us because he has a big crush on my little sister and she dose on him too. Everyone’s gone and its just me in a room along . I see that his friends phone is on the table so I grab it because he never lets anyone go threw it. So I look threw the pictures. Till I see one of ex naked fingering her self. I tell my best friend and her boyfriend. Then we tell my boyfriend and his other friend that is their. Everyone for the night is angry at his best friend but he’s to into himself he doesn’t see it. But this picture is from 2 mouth ago when we had just found this picture on 9/11/11 she’s trying to get to his friends (who are also mine) to get to him I just want her out of our lives. If she mess up the relation with me and my boyfriend their will be hell to pay.

 

 

 

 

I really need help. Because of this situation I cry a lot now and my depression comes back on and off a lot. I have told this story to a few of my friend and have only gotten 2 good answers, ignore it or beat the **** out of her, the first one has not worked at all and I would like to use the second one ad a last resort. I need something to help me please. I have even tried being nice and telling her off nicely I really need help thank you.

If she continues to harrass your bf, he can file a restraining order against her. That will stop her. He should call her one more time, in your presence, and tell her to stop contacting him, and that if she contacts him again, he will contact the police. If she continues to contact him, then he should go to the police and make a complaint about the harrassment. If that doesn't work, then he should file a restraining order and she will be arrested if she contacts him again.