Twilite Man Posted May 10, 2004 Share Posted May 10, 2004 If your girlfriend told you this: You were told NOT to contact me in any way, I don't appreciate your calls at work (DO NOT CALL ME!!!), nor do you need to set up new email accounts so that you can email me. DO NOT CONTACT ME, this is starting to feel like harassment. I do not want to involve the police, But you are making me consider it!!! GET OVER IT!!!!!! I am not interested in you, even if it doesn't work out with with my ex. You lied and deceived me way too much!!! (once was too much and I lost count how many times you acted poorly to me!) Do yourself a favor and forget about me!!! I do not want to ever talk to you again!!! I mean it!!!! Do I have a hope in hell getting her back???? She is mad. Link to post Share on other sites
WWDDFD Posted May 10, 2004 Share Posted May 10, 2004 Originally posted by Twilite Man If your girlfriend told you this: You were told NOT to contact me in any way, I don't appreciate your calls at work (DO NOT CALL ME!!!), nor do you need to set up new email accounts so that you can email me. DO NOT CONTACT ME, this is starting to feel like harassment. I do not want to involve the police, But you are making me consider it!!! GET OVER IT!!!!!! I am not interested in you, even if it doesn't work out with with my ex. You lied and deceived me way too much!!! (once was too much and I lost count how many times you acted poorly to me!) Do yourself a favor and forget about me!!! I do not want to ever talk to you again!!! I mean it!!!! Do I have a hope in hell getting her back???? She is mad. Survey says: NO! Take it from me, when a girl PLAINLY SAYS they aren't interested, they MEAN IT. Leave her alone. Why would you want to go after someone who doesn't like you anyway? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Twilite Man Posted May 10, 2004 Author Share Posted May 10, 2004 We went together for over 1 1/2 years, she divorced her husband for me and I waited to long to commit to her Link to post Share on other sites
befuddled11 Posted May 10, 2004 Share Posted May 10, 2004 Sorry dude..but what part of that don't you understand? She's made herself explicitly clear that you're not to contact her in any way, shape or form AGAIN. When a gal starts bringing up words like "harassment" and "calling the police", don't for a minute think she's just blowing smoke or calling your bluff. She got back with her ex, so she's not even available, anyway. Sorry you're going through this, but take her email very seriously. DO NOT CONTACT HER AGAIN. By the way, how did you deceive her? Link to post Share on other sites
WWDDFD Posted May 10, 2004 Share Posted May 10, 2004 Detail your deception. For her to snap like that it sounds like you hurt her pretty bad, and I cannot adequately give more advice without knowing what you did to her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Twilite Man Posted May 10, 2004 Author Share Posted May 10, 2004 My ex wife was depressed, stating that she was going to commit suicide and I took her to the conference instead of her. Shw was devastated, Should I just give her a month to cool off? Link to post Share on other sites
befuddled11 Posted May 10, 2004 Share Posted May 10, 2004 What kind of "conference" did you apparently take your ex-wife to, instead of her? Was it a conference that was out of town? If so, did you stay in a hotel with your ex wife? That's a pretty harsh response of hers, there had to be a fair bit behind it. As for asking whether you should give her a "month"........dude, I mean no offense, but you don't seem to be getting it. You have been clearly instructed to leave her alone. If she changes her mind down the road and makes contact with you, then you'll have to decide what you'll do......but under no circumstances should you be contacting her again....a week from now, a month from now, a year from now. She's indicated you have been calling her at work and even making up new email addresses, obviously so that you can write her and she won't immediately know it's you (to ignore). You gotta get a grip here. She has it in writing that she wants you to cease and desist all contact with her. To not take this instruction "seriously" and to minimize it and think "oh well she's just angry, she'll get over it in a month, I'll call her then".....that's wishful thinking. It all sounds crazy. She left her husband and marriage (by divorcing) to be with you. Now she's back with her ex. You took YOUR ex wife to a conference when you'd initially said you'd take her. Let this be a lesson that you shouldn't get involved with someone who's married, it almost never leads to anything good or lasting. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Twilite Man Posted May 10, 2004 Author Share Posted May 10, 2004 So what i hear you say is if she calls me then good if not stay clear of her. The conference was an overnight but she stayed in another room. Seriously Link to post Share on other sites
meanttolive4ever Posted May 10, 2004 Share Posted May 10, 2004 hmm im guessing she doesnt want you to call her Link to post Share on other sites
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