Banega100 Posted September 14, 2011 Share Posted September 14, 2011 I come into the self improvement forum to see some positivity and inspiration that is going to power me forward and shift my mentality to that of the incessentally positive ! Just had to dump my girlfriend because i found out shes a compulsive liar, in spite of being pretty much perfect in all other departmemts. Guess what this is no easy thing to do but im not naieve enough to stick about when i fundamentally cant trust a word she says. point being, when i arrive here and see thread after thread of negativity then the forum itself may as well not be called self improvement because BELIEVE ME reading about one anothers failings is not inspiration to succeed. I was mega depressed two years ago but guess what i worked and worked at it, i started affirming positive things about myself to myself on a near constant basis. This is the fundamental to improving yourself. You have to WANT to and you have to BELIEVE it. You start out by wanting to say positive things to yourself constantly, and you do, in time, wind up believing it. With that said, i propose a shift in the mentality within this forum as the time i call upon it to help it was near useless to me. From now on, posts should be positive appraisals of your life, think 'what would a positive take on my situation be'. Telling every one why your life is crap is not positive and only contributes to the cylce. Yeah my girlfriend was brilliant but i have self respect and confidence in my future that i do not need to settle for a liar, i will succeed again in the future without doubt. Now folks it is your turn, but i do not want to see another single negative post from those that claim to want to positively change. Shift your thinking to that of the positive and all aspects of your life will soon fall in line. adios x Link to post Share on other sites
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